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Billie Eilish has lost a whopping 100,000 Instagram followers since coming out last month and sharing she was attracted to women.

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[–] luciole@beehaw.org 135 points 2 years ago

She has 110 millions insta followers. 100,000 represent a 0.1% loss. I wish only 0.1% of the population were homophobic.

[–] midnight@kbin.social 92 points 2 years ago (2 children)

How is it news that she lost less than 0.1% of her followers?

[–] emmeram@lemm.ee 32 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I’m encouraged that the percentage was that low.

[–] Crankpork@beehaw.org 18 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The percentage was low, but 100k people is still a lot of people.

[–] Curiousfur@yiffit.net 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Probably a lot of them were bots

[–] morhp@lemmy.wtf 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why would a bot unfollow because someone is coming out as lesbian?

[–] Mars@beehaw.org 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Correlation != causation.

That because is doing some heavy lifting

[–] morhp@lemmy.wtf 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The post itself implies causation. Also why would a bot unfollow at all?

[–] Mars@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago

Bots are routinely rounded up and banned. A lost follower is not necessarily an unfollow.

The article is reaching for a narrative. The lady they talk about has done other things in this period of time. Other stuff has happened. The change in followers is minuscule in relation to the magnitude, so it could be noise.

It could be homophobia obviously. It could be some controversy about unfortunate body image declarations. It could be noise. It could be the war on Middle East and a round of banned bots. It could be too much time since the last record. She could be losing the spotlight. The social network could be purging deleted accounts.

The reason “homophobia” is a guess. The reason “bots” is another. None invalidates the other because in both cases you have to make assumptions about the motives of 100.000 entities.

Also could be 5.100.000 followers lost and 5mil gained. The article talks about the delta, but there is not a reliable analysis about the composition of the following and its change over the last months, except one simple number.

[–] derbis@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

It sure does. Is that a founded assumption? Or click bait?

[–] loobkoob@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago

So am I!

However, I can't say I listen to or follow Billie Eilish - I only found out about her coming out from reading this, in fact - but even as someone who's just mildly aware of her, I will say I've never assumed her to be straight. My gaydar's probably better tuned than the average person's but even so, I feel like her being some flavour of queer was fairly obvious and I wouldn't be at all surprised if that's influenced / shaped the kind of audience she has.

Unfortunately, I suspect an artist who's less obviously queer would lose a larger following for coming out. But yes, Billie Eilish only losing 100K followers is really encouraging still!

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 76 points 2 years ago (2 children)

How was it not obvious to everyone already? She oozed lesbianism from the start.

[–] klubsanwich@beehaw.org 90 points 2 years ago

A lot of homophobes don't realize how much they love gay culture

[–] Microw@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

She has explicit lyrics referring to men across her albums so far. I just assumed that she was a heterosexual tomboy.

[–] marco@beehaw.org 50 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I really don't understand... Was their thought process someone like this?

"We were gonna hook up any day now, but since she came out that won't happen anymore, so I'll unfollow her!"

[–] NattyNatty2x4@beehaw.org 41 points 2 years ago (1 children)

More likely it's homophobes

[–] davehtaylor@beehaw.org 16 points 2 years ago

Probably a lot of both

[–] jarfil@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago

Hopefully something less insane, like:

"I liked fantasizing/having wet dreams about her while listening to the music, but since she came out that won't happen anymore"

[–] Wahots@pawb.social 34 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This doesn't really feel like news. 100k not showing up to a concert? That's news. But these could be bots or Facebook just adjusting stuff behind the scenes.

[–] agegamon@beehaw.org 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Yeah, exactly. In terms of online followers it's just not that big a change. Even in this article they say she has just over 100 mil followers right now.

I'm sure that a few bots and angry basement goblins unfollowed her, but it's much more likely a little whoopdedoo in the datastream.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 years ago

Holy shit, this article is based on just a 0.1% change? That’s not a statistically significant change over the course of a month.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ngl she is so real for these words.

I never felt like I could relate to girls very well,”

“I love them so much. I love them as people. I’m attracted to them as people. I’m attracted to them for real.”

Eilish continued: “I have deep connections with women in my life, the friends in my life, the family in my life. 

I’m physically attracted to them. But I’m also so intimidated by them and their beauty and their presence.

One more win for gay bottoms. I needed this today.

[–] NOOBMASTER@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] DarkGamer@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Is she going to switch from sad girl music to happy pop music now?

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 11 points 2 years ago

No way lesbians are the saddest bitches there are.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago

No, she was born that way and her music isnt just gonna change over announcing it to people who didn't realize. Besides, I'm the pastel lesbian. And she's the bad guy 😳

[–] Mongostein@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Oh no the 40+s who waited so patiently for her to turn 18 before making disgusting comments are upset!

[–] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

Name doesn't not check out, but is definitely playing against expectations. ;P

[–] MaryTzu@aussie.zone 2 points 2 years ago

So she is bisexual?