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[–] riodoro1@lemmy.world 149 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

The father spends 10 hours a day on twitter and facebook looking at memes about liberals and millennials.

[–] Misconduct@lemmy.world 35 points 1 year ago

With some random sports channel or fox news absolutely blasting in the background the entire time

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 109 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Honestly if you're going out to eat with someone the phones should stay in pockets or bags

If you're making the effort to go out you should be there not on your phones

[–] BruceTwarzen@kbin.social 53 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It depends. I spend so much time with my beat friend that we don't always have things to talk about. Sometimes we get coffee and just sit around and read or look at shit on our phones.

[–] CluckN@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 year ago

No they're both assigned to the same neighborhood during hanging out periods

[–] RecallMadness@lemmy.nz 7 points 1 year ago

Beat friend, wank buddy, jerk mate, cum companion.

[–] Anamana@feddit.de 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Tbh I wouldn't mind my kids looking at their phones.. what does it matter if the games they play are analog or digital? I'm talking about the sitting in the restaurant kind of situation, where kids usually draw, read or do other stuff to entertain themselves.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's not a matter of analog or digital games but a matter of going out to eat with people you care about and sharing that time with them

[–] Anamana@feddit.de 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah but if your kids are young they see you every day, so.. it's different if you don't see each other often.

And my example was more meant for people who argue that they are fine with kids drawing when you're out for food (which most younger kids do), but are annoyed when they use a phone to play.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Drawing can be more of group thing and can turn into conversation. Like asking them about what they're drawing etc.

Being on the phone is a more of a personal experience and has less opportunities for conversation and whatnot

[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Teach ya kids to share memes then

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[–] Anamana@feddit.de 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's a subjective thing I would say. Many people on here would agree that playing a game can also turn into a conversation. If my kids were to play Pokemon or Zelda for example, I could engage with it quite well. It just depends if you know the franchise/culture, making it easier to resonate with.

And tbh I didn't particularly enjoy my family looking at my drawings when I was younger, cause I didn't wanna get a comment about it.

[–] VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get the sentiment, but I have adhd and even with meds, it is sometimes a struggle to pay attention to someone, and I need something extra to do while holding a conversation at times. I need to have something to do with my hands so it's a quiet phone or some clicking toy or pen, so take your pick.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 year ago

I've got ADHD as well (mines inattentive)

I find doodling to be a good addition, especially if I'm having lunch with fellow doodlers

Because not only does it keep my hands busy so I stop bouncing my legs but it can also feed into conversations as well (once has lunch with a fellow doodler who we sketched stuff behind each other, it was really fun)

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have autism and probably ADHD, eating without something else to stimulate me is absolute misery and if you tell me to put away my phone i'm going to start avoiding eating with you.

[–] mercury@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The something else is... The person you're eating with?

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not in my experience, my boomer dad doesn't exactly have much in commin with me, he wants to talk about sports and i want to talk about technology.

We just both pull out our phones and appreciate the presence of the other, you don't have to talk to people to be social.

[–] mercury@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

I mean as long as it's cool with the other person I guess it doesn't hurt

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[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 70 points 1 year ago (5 children)

With what did they take the picture?

[–] rbn@feddit.ch 81 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 18 points 1 year ago
[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 year ago

Honestly, given how old this meme is, I wouldb't be surprised

[–] helpImTrappedOnline@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Taking a family photo seems like it'd be within the spirit of the rule.

Staging it so the teens look sad is the second most likely scenario.

Most likely is they staged the photo and made up the discount caption for internet points.

[–] zurohki@aussie.zone 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would... would people do that? Just go on the internet and tell lies?

[–] helpImTrappedOnline@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No never, not at all. I read online somewhere that the internet cannot tell a lie.

[–] zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago

I think Abraham Lincoln said that

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That's the trap the restaurant uses to get out of giving 10% off.

[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Polaroids don't fit in the interweb tubes, silly!

[–] lugal@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

You're on to something...

[–] anton@lemmy.blahaj.zone 51 points 1 year ago (1 children)

At least they can't give you QR menus.

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

That's the secret - they can.

[–] Hootz@lemmy.ca 44 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yea cause kids totally wanna have a conversation with their shitty father.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Hootz@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In this case it's because he's clearly making them pose for the photo for internet credit

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[–] Tja@programming.dev 25 points 1 year ago

Moral of the story: always travel with your laptop.

[–] FIST_FILLET@lemmy.ml 25 points 1 year ago

if someone keeps pulling out their phone while you’re eating with them, have you considered that you might just not be good company?

[–] woodgen@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How was the photo made then?

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/6398153 The world’s top scientists have already solved it luckily!

[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] ericbomb@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Oldest millennials are now 42.

So tons of millennials with teenage children.

We got old.

[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago

"Joyful parents and dismayed kids..."

  1. "Hurray! Our children are unhappy! This is our goal as parents for some reason..."

  2. You know you're the parents right? You don't need to rely on the authority of others to tell your kids not to have their phones out at dinner? You can just do that yourself.

  3. So if my wife and I want to look up the answer to a question, or check our calendar, we get charged more? Good business strategy there...

[–] livus@kbin.social 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So confused by this. Peter Griffin is definitely a boomer himself.

[–] yokonzo@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Boomer is someone born from 1946 to 1964, I would assume he's closer to early gen x. Idk what his actual birth year is though

Edit: I looked it up, September 22nd, 1963, yeah I guess you're right

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[–] ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'll give a pass to a quick check if it's potentially something vital, but your latest post and the responses can wait for an hour. Focus on the moment at hand. Same gripe I have with people who sit there and film an entire concert rather than watch it.

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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 5 points 1 year ago

More like, everyone poses for a funny pic

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