Gloomy

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[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Game of Thrones. Best four seasons I have ever watched in my live. Things counted. Every character could potentially die. Every fight has real odds to it. I was So hooked.

Shame they never continued the series after season four.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 3 points 2 days ago

Sry, we don't use nuance here.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Tell me you're vegan without telling me you're vegan ;-)

The hard part is not having every cake taste like banana bread. But I can confirm that it works if you know what to do.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Nightwalker Gloomy

I think I just briefly died of cringe.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 4 points 3 days ago

Yeah, same here. I just don't see the need to block people. Some might have a different opinion on one topic than me, but be no in agreement or have something worthwile to say on another.

If I was activly harassed or anything, I'd use the block function to protect myself from that. Never had to do that so far.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 13 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Sure, I'd be interested if you think this is a broken plate situation or not.

We left the pub as a group of four: her, me, and two male friends of hers. I was shitfaced as fuck, like on the verge of not beeing able to walk properly anymore. I didn't chose to get shitfaced too. I was on a diet and skipped lunch to "afford" the calories of a few drinks. Turned out drinking and an empty stomach are a bad combination. Who would've thought, right? I ended up beeing way more wasted then I usually would have been. That is not any excuse for anything, I just bring it up because it is part of the facts

We approached the local train station to go home. Our train was allready standing and waiting to leave, but it would do so for another 20 minutes.

As we arrived at the train station I asked to sit down in the train, as I was feeling realy dizzy and increasingly cold (it was winter). My friend said she'd like us to wait outside at the station plattform and enter the train just before its final take of time.

I don't recall much of the details, but an argument broke out about this, me wanting to go into the train and her wanting to wait outside. It was not a screaming match and not aggressiv, just a normal discussion (this has been confirmed by one of her male friends later, so you don't need to trust my drunken recollection here).

Since there were two male friends of hers with us, it wasn't an issue of her waiting alone at the plattform if I had left. I honestly don't recall her reasoning, or any details of the discussion, nor why we didn't simply split up. The argument ended with me beeing frustrated and saying: "You can sit around in the cold or on that guys dick, for all I care, but I'm going into the train now."

I headed for the train and all three of them followed. We waited together until the train took of and everybody went their merry way. I have no recollection of any conversation that happens about the comment on the way home. She approached me a couple of days later and said that she took great offence.

And just to make this clear: This was the single thing that lead to her ending our friendship. It wasn't the boiling over point, it wasn't the last stupid thing in a long list of stupid things. A week earlier she had thanked me for beeing such a good friend.

I honestly have to admit, I still don't get it. I see how it was a stupid thing to say and of course I see how it was offensiv. I still don't see why it was bad enoth to end a friendship over, and she never explained it to me. I never tried to defend what I said, I apologised as soon as I was made aware of it (I don't remember the incident in great detail. The above telling is put together from my memory fragments and the telling of her two male friends, whom I independently asked to fill me in on what had happend).

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 7 points 4 days ago

Yes, that's true of course. I just don't think it is of benefit to yourself to hold a grudge.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 9 points 4 days ago

Have I moved past their betrayal? I think so. Have I forgiven them? Yes. Do I want those people in my life again? no. never.

That's exactly what I was tyring to get at. Forgiving is something you do for yourself. That doesn't mean you have to forget about what happend nor not let it have consequences. But holding to the grudge will do nothing but harm yourself.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 15 points 4 days ago (6 children)

I stopped drinking alcohol after the event for good, so there's that. It's not that I haven't learned my lesson from it. (Not drinking not beeing the only one, but i won't go into more personal details here).

And I wouldn't call it a character flaw. More like an approach on how to handle live. And in this case, I think she didn't chose a good approach for herself.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 35 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (11 children)

I have encountered this analogy irl. I was pretty drunk and said something distasteful to a friend. She ended our friendship over it and caused the group we were in to split into factions. We tried talking it over, but after I made all efforts I could to apologise, she responded with the plate analogy.

Honestly I thinks its a bad position to take. People have wronged me too over the years. Forgiving them, regardless of them apologising or not, is, in my experience, the better option for yourself.

The hate you carry with you if you don't doesn't do anything to them, but it eats you up from the inside. Forgiving somebody frees you from that. It's not about forgetting what people have done to you (and maybe choosing not to keep them in your life depending on how bad it was that they did), it's about not carrying the hate with you trough the years.

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 1 points 4 days ago

"Oh, sry, I am listening to something right now and would appreciate not to be interrupted while I do so. If it's nothing important that you need to talk about right now I am more than happy to chat with you later on."

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 1 points 5 days ago

Quality work right here (the meme, for fire not Ea-nāṣir).

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Gloomy@mander.xyz to c/fallout@lemmy.world
 

I was wandering what you people think about this one.

Personal I agree on the main points, I loved New Vegas put never finished Fallout 4.

EDIT

Since so far nobody has bothered to watch the video (and I don't blame anybody for it... It's a long ass video), I asked Ai to give us a summary.

Introduction and Initial Impressions

The Fallout series has a history of inconsistent quality, with games like Fallout 1 and 2 being masterpieces, while Fallout 3 was a 3D game with a new world to explore, and Fallout New Vegas being a great comeback to the series' quality 00:31.

Fallout 4's story is a confusing mess, with a bizarre and unengaging plot that fails to materialize into anything meaningful, despite having the building blocks of a good game 02:05.

The game's introduction, where the player character enters a vault and is frozen in cryogenic sleep, is poorly designed and full of nonsensical elements, such as the vault's entrance being exposed to the outside and the player character being expected to respond rationally to orders after being thawed out 03:40.

The game Fallout 4 has a fully voiced main character, which limits role-playing options and forces players into a predetermined emotional response 09:48.

The conversation options in Fallout 4 are limited and often don't match the character's actual dialogue, making it difficult for players to role-play effectively 12:15.

Story and Narrative

The game's story takes place in a post-apocalyptic Boston, where the player must navigate various factions, including the Minutemen and the Institute, to find their missing son 12:43.

The game Fallout 4 has a sequence where the player must find an escaped Institute scientist to help enter the Institute, but this involves hiking through the Glowing Sea, an area filled with deadly toxic radiation storms and mutated life forms 19:51.

In Fallout 4, the player can venture into highly irradiated areas without proper protection and still survive, which is unlike Fallout 1 where radiation can silently kill the player if they are unprepared 20:53.

Factions and Characters Super Mutants in Fallout 4 are portrayed as big, dumb, and screamy NPCs, unlike in other Fallout games where they have a rich history and interesting characters, such as Marcus, a former soldier of the Master's Army 22:18.

The game's factions, such as the Raiders, Super Mutants, and Triggermen, lack conversation, motivation, and backstory, making them one-dimensional enemies to kill, unlike in Fallout New Vegas where factions have their own stories and motivations 24:26.

The Gunners faction in Fallout 4 seems like a unique and interesting faction at first, but they are automatically hostile to the player and lack any meaningful interaction or storyline 26:57.

The Minutemen have no real in-universe reason to resemble historical Minutemen and lack goals, motivations, or ideology beyond protecting people 29:20

The Institute is a ruthless and evil organization that abducts people, replacing them with identical synths, and is the main villain of the game, with the player eventually infiltrating their base using a makeshift teleporter 31:46

The Institute's director, Shaun, has a questionable standard for determining whether his parent loves him, involving completing various challenging tasks in the Commonwealth 37:12.

The story of Fallout 4 has plot holes, such as Shaun's ability to control technology but not intervening to help the player, and the lack of explanation for Kellogg's age 37:56.

The Institute's portrayal in the game is criticized for being unrealistic, with its members lacking personal lives, free time, or leisure activities, making them seem like robots 41:27.

World-Building and Environment

The world of Fallout 4 is compared to those of previous Fallout games, with the latter feeling more real and alive, while Bethesda's Fallout worlds feel dead and empty 45:21.

Diamond City appears to be poorly sustained, with only two tiny crop fields and no apparent use of available space for farming or other purposes, and its inhabitants live in rickety shacks despite having the resources to build better housing 46:25.

The city's use of stadium lights for illumination is impractical and wasteful, especially considering the scarcity of power in the post-apocalyptic world, and other locations like the SUS Iron Works seem to have an abundance of power without explanation 47:08.

The game's world-building is lacking, with many locations feeling dead, empty, and static, and characters like the inhabitants of the Drumland Diner living in squalid conditions without basic necessities like beds or toilets 49:26.

Ghouls in Fallout 4 don't need food or water to survive, contradicting the main quest of Fallout 1, where the water chip is crucial for the vault's survival 55:36

Gameplay Mechanics and Choices

The game puts the player in a position of power, making them the general of the Minutemen and director of the Institute, but this has no significant effect on the world or plot 57:16

The game's approach to artificial intelligence and androids, such as Codsworth, is inconsistent and raises questions about their sentience and treatment by factions like the Brotherhood of Steel and the Railroad 01:00:14

Game Reviews and Community Reception

Games journalists cannot provide meaningful reviews due to the need to constantly produce content, and their reviews are surface-level, lacking investment in the game's IP, history, and themes 01:05:29.

The review process is influenced by the potential loss of early access to games and ad revenue, leading to overly positive reviews, such as Fallout 4's 9.5 out of 10 score from IGN 01:06:02.

In contrast to Fallout 4, games like New Vegas have a dedicated fan base, with a cult following and real-life meetups, showcasing a genuine artistic product with a lasting impact 01:06:38.

 

cross-posted from: https://feddit.org/post/8995350

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by Gloomy@mander.xyz to c/boostforlemmy@lemmy.world
 

There was a person in all these days that trough some shade on Boost for tracking, but they were referring to the free version, which makes the presence of ads and tracking very clear. In the post somebody recommended the app tracking protection that comes with DuckDuckGos Browser. I downloaded it and to my surprise have had a lot of tracking attempts blocked from Boost, despite me having the payed version.

I thought I'd ask about this here first, because there might be a reasonable explanation for this. From my understanding it was made clear previously, that the payed version of boost doesn't tack data...?

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Gloomy@mander.xyz to c/deutschland@feddit.org
 

So nah dran...

Edit für Kontext: Beitrag in einer Diskussion über Vance Aufforderung an Deutsche Politiker, mit der AFD zusammen zu arbeiten.

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Gloomy@mander.xyz to c/mander@mander.xyz
 

This might be a silly question and I might have missed the info, if it is posted somewhere, but is there a way (and need) to support this instance financially? I like it here and would love to help out a bit. I'd offer any other kind of help needed, but I'm not tech savvy, so money would have to do.

 

Mich würde interessieren, was eure Gedanken hierzu sind. Ich kann mir vorstellen, dass die CDU das in den nächsten Wochen im Wahlkampf intensiv nutzen wird.

 

As title says :-)

 

This is a (slightly older) article about Nuclear Energy and climate change. It's a hottly debated topic in climate communities, so I thought some of you would enjoy to read it.

Another article that brings up some more points against nuclear power can be found here.

I'd be interested what you ppl think of the matter.

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