Car manufacturers came to the same conclusion and tada there is Stellantis and 50% of all cars came from the same factory. Houses are pre-fab for decades. Humans love brands but many items come from the same factory just with another label.
That there are so many Linux distro's is why it's still a niche on desktops and it will always stay that way.
I recently moved to Mailcow, it's a one in all solution. My spam filter is Proxmox mail gateway, also very user friendly.