adhd_traco

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[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

That's pretty cool and very kind of you. But I was exaggerating, though it does hit me more than it should.

But cognitively I know it's usually not that big of a deal. Sometimes the way I communicated is an issue, or somebody interpreted it wrong, or they are having a bad day, being unreasonable, or I just straight up made a mistake. It could be so many things.

I find this article pretty useful for anyone who might struggle with this and rejection in general:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/oct/08/stay-true-to-yourself-fly-closer-sun-what-ive-learned-from-50-years-of-rejection

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Help, I want to report an assault!

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 3 points 14 hours ago (8 children)

Admirable. A single down-vote, even out of 200 and I take physical damage for the next few days.

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

How about knighting people who actually do real good, rather than rich assholes? Oh right, the people knighting them are the fucking monarchs.

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 6 points 2 days ago

The dumbest game I've ever played. Escaped into it as a kid on release and got addicted. Sure the initial journey to 60 was pretty magical. It was my first mmo, and I had played WC3 a lot before.

But my god, the dunning krueger effect, the toxicity, the community. Just terrible imo. And of course the utter unfulfilling time sink.
I've also been quite a competitive gamer, having played a lot of cs, dota and wc3 ladder, some semi-professionally. And WoW is simply not it.

I learned how evil Blizzard is, how addicted I can get to certain games, etc. yeah, the one word that comes to mind looking back at it is "stupid".

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 4 points 2 days ago

LOL pretty much went the same path as you. Tried some other search engines (don't have a searxng one though). And it's only that IRC log. So, personally couldn't find any evidence. But also doesn't seem that important, since the concept appears to be the most important part.

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 1 points 2 days ago

Talked with a friend today and casually mentioned the book, and she got furious and mentioned a bunch of problems with the book and the author. I advise people to look for criticism about this book before using it. The only specific thing I'll point out here is this:

"In 2019, a group of certified NVC trainers published a #MeToo statement honouring Marshall Rosenberg's legacy but also acknowledging he had slept with students at some times of his life."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marshall_Rosenberg

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 26 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I hesitate to post both of these, because I don't wanna get into conspiracy stuff. But both are not well known, and I hear a lot of it keeps getting deleted.

EDIT: The first one appears to be quite popular in podcasts and tabloids. So I'll just say it's an interesting mystery, where I have no idea what gets deleted and what doesn't.

Many questions about the case of: Gabriela Rico Jiménez

Warning: pretty dark rabbit hole

And quite a lot of stuff pointing towards Ghislaine Maxwell having been a reddit supermod: https://www.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/r45a5n/here_is_the_evidence_that_reddit_user_maxwellhill/

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 11 points 2 days ago

Aside from all the things that are instant turn-offs...

Being hopeful.
Also seem to get drawn to BPD

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 4 points 4 days ago

Sounds very psychosis inducing.

 

Moved places, and the bathroom is tiled like this. It's fucking with my mind every time.

 

Hey folks!

I'm having a strong urge lately to connect to themes of isolation and melancholy.

Anyone else enjoying this stuff?

Here's a list of some that I enjoy. Also, the strongest imagery I have for this is a little island on another planet, with meadows, a little wooden house, pools of water, etc. while seeing the star-studded universe above.

Here are some examples I enjoy

Ozamu Dazai's No Longer Human
Sandman TV show
Angus & Julia Stone - The Devil's Tears
The Eddie Vedder Album for Into the Wild
Everything about Invoker in the animated DotA movie
Boy - Fit Back In

Please share anything around these themes you enjoy, or your thoughts in general :)

(will update my list, if anything else comes to mind)

Thank you!

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