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That thing nobody understands about you. That book that explains it. Match me up.

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[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

The Critique of Pure Reason.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] case_when@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's the Myth of Sisyphus for the under-fives.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 1 points 23 hours ago

One must imagine incy, not wincy

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 52 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR)

[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 20 points 3 days ago

Anything by Douglas Adams, Kerouac, Ferlinghetti, music history textbooks, Samurai Jack slash fiction, public restroom graffiti, HVAC technical manuals, and the comment sections on porn sites.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 11 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Iceberg Slim [aka Robert Beck] was widely read in the Black community and almost completely unknown outside of it. He inspired many Black artists, and both Ice-T and Ice Cube named themselves in his honor.

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[–] johnny_deadeyes@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 days ago

Kurt Vonnegut's Cat's Cradle might not explain it, but could add valuable context.

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 9 points 3 days ago

"They're not rocks Marie!!"

...ok, maybe some of them are, but they're really cool!

[–] dil@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Realm of the elderlings, I mess my own life up through anxiety and overthinking, reading about fitz doing it makes me feel better about myself

Gentleman bastards, spurts of false confidence carry me through my days lol

[–] Taco2112@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

All volumes of the Uncle John’s Bathroom Readers. My brain is mostly just useless trivia.

[–] aim_at_me@lemmy.nz 2 points 2 days ago

Killed by a Traffic Engineer by Wes Marshall.

[–] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy series and the John Dies at the End series

both 10/10s mixing gut wrenching existentialism and laugh out loud comedy

tbh I probably wouldn't say I'm into comedy writing in general but those two and Terry Pratchett are the only writers to ever make me bust out laughing in response to words on a page

[–] zerodawn@leaf.dance 4 points 3 days ago

I've lost count of the number of times and number of formats in which i've consumed The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and i've loved it every time.

[–] NaibofTabr 7 points 3 days ago
[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Gustave Doré- Illustrations for the Divine Comedy by Dante Alighieri

Read the Divine Comedy at like 12, and loved it. What I liked the most were the illustrations, they made a profound impact in me; and are probably the first artistic work I came to by myself that truly shaped me as a person.

https://archive.org/details/the-dore-illustrations-for-dantes-divine-comedy-pdfdrive

[–] case_when@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

These are beautiful. They're what I want to draw when I grow up.

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

Same, still a work in progress

[–] JoshuaBrusque@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

The Myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camut. Absurdism/it philosophically examines whether one should commit suicide.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 3 days ago

Every single comment shown in my profile.

[–] Sasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago

The anarchist-faq will get you most of the way there, and the K-On manga will fill in the gaps.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"Crime and Punishment". Doing something amoral only to find out I have morals.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Brothers Karamazov is way better.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 1 points 59 minutes ago

It's all subjective. I really liked that one too but C&P hit me harder.

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, The Mysterious Stranger by Mark Twain, and The Codex Borgia.

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)
[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago

I know everything I need to know just from the titles mate

[–] lemmy_acct_id_8647@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not as much a book, but the documentary Dominion. If someone can watch that and not understand reasons for going vegan if not choosing to do so themselves, I seriously question their moral compass.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The best part about being vegan is I'll never have to watch that doco lol

[–] lemmy_acct_id_8647@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago

Same. I went vegan before watching it. Tried doing so and only made it about 15 min in. So hard to watch.

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

The Stranger - Albert Camus

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

My life is so complicated, you'd need an entire "wikipedia-styled" article of me.

If I had one, it'd probably be one of the craziest stories... well like not like any acheivements or anything, but more like depression and trauma. I'm gonna seem so broken that you'd not wanna be friends. People are gonna be like: "oh that's that person, wow" then walk away since nobody want to hang out since nobody want to get afflicted/infected with my sadness.

I mean, I reflect on my past and I visualize the scene in "3rd person" and I look like a scared kitten hiding in the corner, except I'm not a cute kitten, but rather looks like a mini-tiger. That was what I was like in school.

I'm kinda just deciding on leaving an autobiography/journal, in case I kms in the future. I wonder how my parentd would react. Maybe leaving something behind would finally get them to understand what I've been through from my PoV. Maybe they'd live a better life without me being around. Idk.

[–] underreacting@literature.cafe 4 points 3 days ago

I look like a scared kitten hiding in the corner, except I'm not a cute kitten, but rather looks like a mini-tiger. That was what I was like in school.

You should write that autobiography. I think you have a way with words.

You can write something for yourself and for other people to understand you through, without the intention of leaving it behind. Leave it alive instead. You can do it and carry on. You can know their reactions instead of wonder, if you decide to show them. And you can work through your experiences through writing. Preferably while being in contact with a support group or therapist, because writing it will for sure drag it up.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 3 days ago

listen to all jethro tull till you can recognize every song and figure out the two bad albums.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

Codex Seraphinianus.

Some pages may take two-three reads before understanding fully.

[–] underreacting@literature.cafe 3 points 3 days ago

As a kid one of my favourite passages to read was about a girl who saw her twin get ran over by a car and killed. I don't remember anything else about that book... but I would devour anything sad and traumatic and upsetting. I would absorb those emotions and live those lives, and it would be like a daily catharsis to read something horrifying and cry it out.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 3 points 3 days ago

To scrap the surface: Babel.

The description of what it means to be an expat, away from your culture, cut much deeper than it had reasons to. And it’s a great action/fantasy book

[–] muxika@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago
  • The Hellbound Heart by Clive Barker
  • The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brian

I have PTSD and a dark sense of humor about it.

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