bubbalu

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[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

That's so cool! I started a big bike adventure on Vashon Island but had no idea that was there. There's also a really beautiful labyrinth.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

for me, it's Carlos from 'A Single Man'

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

It's also one of the most effective medicines for relieving menstrual cramps.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago (6 children)

...and how do you 'block Trump'? Quit dodging!

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

It's an insane contradiction to be caught up in---on the one hand recognizing these institutions as genocide-hungry goliaths, and on the other needing their recognition and prestige to move on in the world.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do they come out quickly do you know? I had to leave it at a gas station off the highway.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, sorry for speaking so idiomatically. It means that something 'gave up its ghost' because it died and the ghost is no longer in the body.

It's an old car and was in an accident recently. Just getting some panels replaced cost about 1/5 of the price of the car so mechanical work is probably a non-starter.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why not just use the word 'kin'?

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago

Right-wing cartoonist don't draw your political opponent as a caricature of a Jewish person challenge: impossible.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

That's a terrifying setup. I don't think my parents and any of my partners' parents were ever in a room together when I was in HS.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 42 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know if it makes 100% tactical sense but the symbol of resillience is really powerful.

 

I was able to militarize the party somewhat and thaw relations with the KPD. Was hoping to win the lumpen and rural workers/peasants to modest success. Got too stuck in party affairs. I recommend fundraising hard and early.

 

hamburger cheeseburger big mac whopper

 

Obviously I rescheduled the later but now I am approaching the cusp of the 'low on meds' survival horror game. Have been on the fence with how dysphoric I'm feeling and all of the 'am I trans enough' thoughts. NGL realizing how quickly I decided to keep my laser appointment is perversely affirming.

Anyways I might have to book it up to Canada sometime this week.

 

Not even eating that many things that don't agree with me and still it's goddamn..

E: I had a milkshake from my favorite milkshake place in this town even though I said I wouldn't and it made me vomit on a street preacher.

 

I broke up with my partner on Sunday and am all out of whack. We had plans to go see the new Dune but I was feeling too blugh to leave the home so now my man is spreading like 10 chapters of Dungeon Meshi so we can watch it.

 

If you comment positively, I'll donate you the setup and see if you can guess the puncher.

emotional manipulationI just got out of a depressive episode and a dub would mean a lot rn.

 

Where I live now, things are okay. I have friends I see regularly, a stable job, and the prospect of owning a home in the next few years. At the same time, it is absolutely sprawling and street life is absolutely non-existent. Cultural life is oriented around bars and events and it is hard for things to happen spontaneously.

Meanwhile, I grew up in a different city which had a much more vibrant street life, and it was borderline possible to live without a car. I am at a real crossroads here now deciding if I should cut it and move home, or keep going with the life I am building here.

In general I struggle with depression, and I am worried I am fixating on changes in my extrinsic conditions as a deflection from my inner work/inner struggles.

Would like to here other's perspectives, and particularly the experience of people who have made a big move recently.

Staying Pros

  • No major life disruption
  • Continue with stable job
  • Cost of Living lower
  • Most friends live here

Staying Cons

  • No street life
  • Must drive to do anything---feel shut-in

Leaving Pros

  • No car!
  • Closer to family
  • Street Life
  • Bigger Gay scene
  • Start Over lite

Leaving Cons

  • Job hunt
  • Major life disruption
  • Might just be 'grass is greener'
  • Leave friends
  • Higher Cost of Living
  • Continue my very patchy work history
 

It had been 'Fly me to the Moon' for almost a decade before that which actually helped me develop as a singer a lot lol. I was a substitute teacher for a while and had this hysterical moment when I blooped out and was staring into space while my class was at recess and started singing. One of the students walks over with a concerned look and asked 'are you okay?'

 

Things are alright, but we have moderate differences in goals and life paths that make a more fulfilling relationship unlikely. Being with him is really fun and affirming, but it just feels like something is missing. At the same time, I am afraid if I end things to focus on dating more I'll be lonely and feel selfish.

Looking for advice and perspectives on when to leave or stay.

 

My old car insurance fucked up and charged me for six months of insurance even though I cancelled so now I am several thousand dollars in debt until I can figure it out. Swag swag swag.

 

can we get some o7s for my bravery down in the chat?

 

Any ideas? Pictures are helpful! I was gonna do Leon but deadass I have no dark color tshirts somehow @.@

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