ericatty

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[–] ericatty 3 points 5 days ago

Oh, and I almost quit Angel multiple times back when it was a new episode every week. The first one because the actor died, I understood and it was sad but not worth quitting. The next because Charisma got pregnant? (Even though I didn't know why Cordy was killed off then) Then the character of Fred, but at least she got a new character that I grew to really like. But hated how Wesley's death happened. Darla's death was pretty epic though. That show was so all over the place.

[–] ericatty 2 points 5 days ago

There's an anime in its 3rd season right now, that when a character death from the manga happens... I'll stop watching soon after. Does that count?

[–] ericatty 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

So far I like the world, the magic. I like Dresden so far, in spite of the m'lady stuff. I'm expecting monster of the week mysteries with some over arching mystery. Like Buffy or Supernatural in book form.
I'm hoping the mystery payoff doesn't suck or be too Scooby-Doo-esque when it's solved.

[–] ericatty 2 points 2 weeks ago

Love this one! His Zoe Ashe series is really good too. He writes under Jason Pargin now if anyone searches for his newer stuff

[–] ericatty 1 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I just started this series! I'm halfway through Book 1. I've heard they get a ton better.

[–] ericatty 2 points 3 weeks ago

A lot of artists don't change their legal name. They sign contracts with and their IDs have their government name.

[–] ericatty 1 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

My brain came to a full stop here. One of those "have I ever seen these two in the same room" moments.

For anyone else like me: Sentience is the ability to feel and perceive things. Sentient is the adjective form.

Sapience is the ability to think and acquire wisdom, and the capacity for intelligence. Sapient is the adjective form.

Sentient is often misused for any living creature that thinks, when sapient would be the correct word.

Modern humans are classified as homo sapiens.

I think the confusion is summed up by a quote by a park ranger talking about the design of trash cans in National Parks: (paraphrased) There's a lot of overlap between the smartest bear and the dumbest human.

So if I understand, both are sentient. But they vary widely on sapience.

Sentience is recognizing the trash can is there. Sapience is being able to figure out how to open the lid to access the trash and keeping the wisdom to open the next one easily. Sentience is feeling either frustrated or happy based on the level of success.

Unless I messed it up.

[–] ericatty 11 points 4 weeks ago

And the other 1/3 were accused of being hyperbolic and/or hysterical.

[–] ericatty 50 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm not from the UK or living there. So grain of salt and all... But I read this not so much as a punishment, but closing a loophole so he can never ever be in a position of royal power or benefits. And it would hold even if he wins in court.

If we in the US had closed some loopholes 2021-24, we would be at least 50% less fucked.

And maybe 90% less if we'd done it after Nixon.

It's not enough. But it's not nothing.

[–] ericatty 4 points 1 month ago

Very shaky, every time? Not an emergency room visit, but you need to see a doctor to rule out possible health issues. People have already brought up some serious possibilities that can become major problems if ignored.

Are you on any medications that could be causing it if you take it on an empty stomach?

It could be something you can just manage by keeping some bite sized Snickers available. (Literal suggestion from my doctor 30 years ago when I had something similar I was working through lunch and getting angry)

But my doc ruled out other issues with bloodwork. The miniature candy bars were to even out my blood sugars until I could eat properly.

I had to learn to manage it better so I didn't snap and get fired.

For people who don't know: Snickers candy is peanuts, caramel, and nougat covered in chocolate.

[–] ericatty 13 points 2 months ago

This was me. When I got married at 26, the date of one of the guests thought I was the teenaged babysitter. (We met for the first time the day before)

Dating while in school/college was easier because the guys knew I was their age. And that I just looked young. Some of them caught shit for "dating a high schooler" even though I was actually in my 20s and a college student.

I was friends with my now husband for three years before we got married. Making friends with people, making a connection, can help them see you as the adult you are. Then you start to look like someone they'd want to date. I was 23 when we met and became friends, we started dating over a year later. Dated for 2 years and married ever since.

Things are different now, as far as meeting people. I know that. But how people perceptions change is still the same. Sometimes you have to just let people get to know you and get past the initial "She's young" until they realize you are not that young.

Once someone knows you, they'll think of you as their peer, even if you look young (or old for that matter)

If you just want hookups, that's trickier. Because the easy pickings are um, questionable in their tastes when you look like a teenager. Or they are the teenagers. Just be careful if you go that route.

Oh, and I was an A cup, size 2 petite. So skinny and short on top of looking young. I also got mistaken for a boy if my hair was pulled back.

Learning to love my body and it's changes through the years, boosting my self-esteem, finding things I could be passionate about... those things are very attractive to others because those things make you feel better about yourself.

[–] ericatty 5 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I feel dumb. I don't understand what praxis means in this context. Even after reading the definition... someone send help

 

This is not a complaint, but a commentary on how I've been trying to get it to be more commonplace to talk about. Like the weather or a new hobby, lol

I've had a more social month. Was having lunch with my boomer uncle and he asked how menopause was going. He meant it in a very sincere way, and he shared some of what he remembered from when my aunt was going through it. He was glad the progesterone is helping my night terrors.

I was telling my husband about Naomi Watt's book, and he was getting angry on our behalf at some of the stories. He's planning to listen to the audiobook too. I'm likeing her book, it's kind of a cliff note version of all the books, along with a lot of personal stories from lot's of women.

My sons (step) and dad (before he passed) have been part of the conversation as well.

Which I'm realizing it sounds like I'm just around men, but I've talked to my sister-in-law and female friends and relatives too. I'm just around the men in my life quite often. My "found aunties" are also starting to check in about it too. They are 3 sisters in their 70s and 2 went through forced menopause because of breast cancer and are still hesitant about HRT after those studies. And they were brought up to not talk about it.

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