Remember Hoekstra's emberassing speech? Like a toddler throwing a tantrum. (1)
"Under no circumstances are we going to accept this." in name of EU. They accepted it two days later as everyone ignores him anyways.
Almost none of the other countries cares for EU's opinion because the EU has shown that the greenification comes at the cost of most expensive energy in the world (1), deindustrialization (2), becoming completely dependent on foreign r&d and manufacturing. This also has military consequences, as we can view in Russia's war in Ukraine - EU promised aid it can't deliver, leading to strategic mistakes, deaths and military losses by Ukraine. This also economical consequences, leading to political instability and which will permeate to the loss of the welfare state.
We've made an exempliary role of ourselves, in a cautionary way.
We try to convince others by relying on slogans and wishful thinking, on the one hand. And shaming and bullying on the other. Should've relied instead on great engineering that others would want to follow for their own benefit. Show, don't tell.
But we've no such thing - au contraire.
Even when going through a normal education system, this would not happen. The difference in both ability and interests is so large that there's little shared basis for socialization. This way there's at least some socialization.
Why do you think that's the case?