qtpie

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Welcome to another one of my posts. So, I had this one friend, and things were going really well! She was actually LGBT and technically Korean-American so she advocated for stuff related to that. She was really nice and kind and I actually really liked talking to her.

Well, gradually, she started to support more of Trump’s talking points. This included following his account on any social media app she had along with other conservative accounts. She started to hate the LGBTQ community more, thinking of herself as one of the “good lesbians”. She accused the entire LGBTQ community of being bad people and took pride in being one of the lesbians who didn’t support the community and being a conservative lesbian.

She believed she stood out as a lesbian and took pride in being a “good lesbian” like I stated and not “one of the pervert queers” (anything in quotes is obviously not my belief but hers/something she said).

She started to then hate all immigrants, regardless of if they were documented or undocumented, and really did not like Black or Latino people, thinking of them as “evil” and accusing them of being “illegals”.

She and her friends were all conservative queer people, most of which turned straight. They would all laugh at people who disagreed with their opinion and thought of Trump as the greatest guy in the world. So, an echo chamber.

I gradually stopped interacting with them until the girl stopped talking to me and I believe she blocked me.

She also didn’t really support actual transition between trans people and said while she doesn’t see trans women as “actual women”, she will be nice and respect their gender identity and pronouns.

She even said non-binary people don’t exist, which is silly. As a flavor of non-binary, this would mean I don’t actually exist and I just disappeared from this dimension.

So, yeah, has anyone else had an experience with a friend who turned conservative? Maybe a family member? It’s sad when the person you thought you knew turns into a parrot who just repeats the same dumb talking points over and over.

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Hello everyone! (piefed.social)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by qtpie@piefed.social to c/cutecafe@sh.itjust.works
 

It's me, the mod's friend! I'm hereeee!

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You are girl :3

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
 

SERIOUSLY AS A BI DUDE I LOVE WOMEN SO MUCH 😳 💕

 
[–] qtpie@piefed.social 9 points 1 month ago

I'm so sorryyyy :((

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago

I forgot about that. It is absolutely deplorable, though, you're right

 

I’m not asking to create drama but rather out of genuine curiosity. I will give big hugs to anyone who says their family is unsupportive. Mine is very much supportive and love me no matter what.

 

This is coming from a neurodivergent guy. I just don’t get it. I mean, I know it’s probably because we act differently, but WHY EXACTLY do some people decide we’re lesser than neurotypical people?

 

This is coming from a neurodivergent guy. I just don’t get it. I mean, I know it’s probably because we act differently, but WHY EXACTLY do some people decide we’re lesser than neurotypical people?

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Maybe I should just use he/him… It means that’s what I go by but I don’t mind being called she.

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 4 points 1 month ago

Fair point, thank you a bunch!

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by qtpie@piefed.social to c/newcommunities@lemmy.world
 

It’s called !angelos_rainbow_haven@piefed.social and it’s a safe haven for everyone! You can vent, post memes, and chat about general things. Also, you have to be kind to others there. You can also post about LGBTQ+ stuff considering it’s a rainbow haven...

 
[–] qtpie@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago

You did nothing wrong, it’s all them OP.

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It’s just wrong to do so. I REALLY don’t like people who bully others for being different, it goes against my values and PISSES ME OFF!!!!!

 

Genuine question. I feel like there’s too much division and that people should find common ground. I really don’t like the two-party system in the US either.

 

So, I did think I was a straight guy, but I am bi and just prefer women >w<

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

The one you have is cute! (Claire François)

[–] qtpie@piefed.social 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Y’all are adorable 🥺

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