wintervoid

joined 3 weeks ago
[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

NUSHELL MENTIONED

part of what makes having that conversation so difficult is that I already have been presenting as nb to them and they assume I'm fine with that and I don't want to have to come out to them again

hornet from the hit game silksong

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Are there any safer options that dont have a risk of my parents knowing? Like I've mentioned in other replies in this thread I am sure they'd be accepting and I told them I was nb like a year ago to test the waters and they've been fine with that I just really am not ready for that conversation

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I get that it's probably a bad idea I just desperately need this and I'm not ready to have that talk with my parents

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's just that I'm not ready to have that conversation with my parents yet but I need to medically transition as soon as possible. thank you for the resource

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I'm kind of out to my parents they know that I go by a different name and I've only told them that I'm nonbinary. they seem to be supportive of my sister who's lesbian as well. I don't know if I can deal with being forced through more therapy to get hrt because my mental health has been in the gutter for the past 3 years and I would preferably not have to "prove" to a cis person that I have severe gender dysphoria

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago (6 children)

the issue with being in the US is with his things are right now I'm worried that the "good care" could get taken away very soon bc of the current politics situation. I don't really know much about how the clinical stuff works besides if you dont get it through planned parenthood you have to be diagnosed and it's a huge wait but I might be completely wrong

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should I do diy? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

I've been getting more comfortable with the idea of starting hrt. The 2 main reasons I havent yet are the current US politics and also I'm not ready for my parents to know about that yet and as far as I am aware they would know because I'm on their insurance and it would be in the bill. Diy avoids both of those things though. The one thing idk about is actually paying for it. I'm in college rn and while I did make a good amount of money over the summer, spending $20 per month or however much it is doesn't really sound great but because it is something I genuinely need im not sure and I just want to avoid going through my parents and the medical system

Edit: Also realized I should mention that I am an adult because that's probably important with informed consent stuff

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

he can merge without looking

I want graphine on my phone so badly but I can't because it's carrier locked :(

Personally I just skip the vps. I use my old HP laptop running fedora as my server (with cloudflared to expose my jellyfin and nextcloud because I live in a dorm and can't port forward)

[–] wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

wish my phone wasn't carrier locked so I could switch to graphine

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Need advice (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by wintervoid@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

**So i'm in a bit of a weird position in my life right now. I've known i'm trans for the past 3ish years and recently started college. Most of the people around me seem to be pretty supportive and my parents are also supportive. I already have everyone calling me by my choice name but other then that I havent done anything I really want to actually start to transition so I can stop being depressed and there are some moments where like i really want to buy fem clothes but i go on amazon and its just too big of a mental hurdle to do anything related to transitioning has anyone else experianced something like this where they were in a place where they could transition and nothing was preventing them but they were just too scared to if so how did you deal with it?

Edit: Thanks so much for the advice everyone I think going on hrt is too scary for me but I'll order some fem clothes tomorrow. I really appreciate the advice and kind words <3

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