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[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 12 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Ended up going to stay a day or two more down here as I probs hit a mental limit with care before I get things going again. Finally caught up with me I think.

Big fight with the ol' boy last night and I can see he's reaching his too. It's all been sorted out today everyone just needs a breather and that's healthy.

In unrelated news I took a weed burner to dim sims with little chillies on top on a bbq which was not something on my bucket list but here we are.

Excuse the magpie poo on the left that's not my fault.

We also need a rave choon

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There’s an idea. The old boy could learn to bbq. That’s acceptably manly, right? Potato salad/slaw and bagged salad come ready to eat so the old girl won’t be expected to make sides.

I personally disliked my countertop dishwasher but if your olds are less picky than me it could help them.

(Please take your breaks)

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago

You don't see that on Masterchef

I hope some more Bellarine time gives you the chance to relax a bit - you’ve got a difficult situation going on. Taking care of yourself is important too 💛

[–] just_kitten@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Woof, you definitely deserve a bit of time and space after all that energy going around. That's great that you have this space to get a breather because it sounds like A Lot. It also sucks to be the only child stepping up (I note crickets around the sibling's involvement).

Your little dim sims almost look like dangerous marshmellows. Very cute. I kind of want to try grilled dim sims too. (Also good idea from melbaboutown regarding your dad doing Manly Barbequeing - though it depends on whether you mother can eat that or needs softer foods)

[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 1 points 13 hours ago

Yea only thing bro has done is drop off some shit to eat once that she couldn't eat lol. Didn't even see her in hospital. Granted they just had a bubs for the recent hospital stay but ol' girl has been in and out for over a year so it's not really an excuse in my mind. When they were over a few weeks ago when ol' girl just got out, I was explaining the gravity of things and they just didn't give a shit which annoyed me.

The eating thing is doing my head in. For over a year now for her it's supposed to be 6 small things a day and I'm struggling to get just 1 in. Now with the bowel resection and her not eating for that long in recovery and the refusal I just can't get enough volume of food in. When she was in good shape and sound mind she'd refuse ol' boy's bbqs anyway.. lol.

I guess I just feel everything I've been trying to do (basically keep her at home and not in a home) has just fallen apart.