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[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 12 points 23 hours ago (4 children)

Ended up going to stay a day or two more down here as I probs hit a mental limit with care before I get things going again. Finally caught up with me I think.

Big fight with the ol' boy last night and I can see he's reaching his too. It's all been sorted out today everyone just needs a breather and that's healthy.

In unrelated news I took a weed burner to dim sims with little chillies on top on a bbq which was not something on my bucket list but here we are.

Excuse the magpie poo on the left that's not my fault.

We also need a rave choon

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

There’s an idea. The old boy could learn to bbq. That’s acceptably manly, right? Potato salad/slaw and bagged salad come ready to eat so the old girl won’t be expected to make sides.

I personally disliked my countertop dishwasher but if your olds are less picky than me it could help them.

(Please take your breaks)

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 22 hours ago

You don't see that on Masterchef

I hope some more Bellarine time gives you the chance to relax a bit - you’ve got a difficult situation going on. Taking care of yourself is important too πŸ’›

[–] just_kitten@aussie.zone 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Woof, you definitely deserve a bit of time and space after all that energy going around. That's great that you have this space to get a breather because it sounds like A Lot. It also sucks to be the only child stepping up (I note crickets around the sibling's involvement).

Your little dim sims almost look like dangerous marshmellows. Very cute. I kind of want to try grilled dim sims too. (Also good idea from melbaboutown regarding your dad doing Manly Barbequeing - though it depends on whether you mother can eat that or needs softer foods)

[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 1 points 6 hours ago

Yea only thing bro has done is drop off some shit to eat once that she couldn't eat lol. Didn't even see her in hospital. Granted they just had a bubs for the recent hospital stay but ol' girl has been in and out for over a year so it's not really an excuse in my mind. When they were over a few weeks ago when ol' girl just got out, I was explaining the gravity of things and they just didn't give a shit which annoyed me.

The eating thing is doing my head in. For over a year now for her it's supposed to be 6 small things a day and I'm struggling to get just 1 in. Now with the bowel resection and her not eating for that long in recovery and the refusal I just can't get enough volume of food in. When she was in good shape and sound mind she'd refuse ol' boy's bbqs anyway.. lol.

I guess I just feel everything I've been trying to do (basically keep her at home and not in a home) has just fallen apart.

Goodnight all ❀️

[–] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I threw out a 30 year old t shirt just now.🫑

[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Fluffball lineage.

I've done my things, now I can go to bed. 5 cc's of cat cuddles and 20 cc's of self pity.

[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They're so polite taking to their respective plates.

This is rare form for the kitten. Moments later she was stealing from her mother's plate lol

[–] underwatermagpies@aussie.zone 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

First day of new job tomorrow. It should be good but I'm in a bit of a "what if they hate me because I'm not wearing the perfect outfit" headspace.

Good luck, hope it goes well!

[–] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 3 points 23 hours ago

I had that feeling not long ago. A good workplace will make you feel welcome almost straight away

[–] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I actually managed to get a bit done around the apartment in between naps. I think I am still off from that flu a couple weeks ago. I have loaded up the fridge with vege foods for the week so hopefully that will get the vitamins going. Have a good week everyone.

[–] just_kitten@aussie.zone 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Hope you have a good week too. My entire back is sore for no good reason and I feel like I'm coming down with something rather than recovering from it - I'll chalk it up to having absolutely no coffee or tea today and all the grog from last night. Gonna have a light dinner of steamed brussel sprouts and a fish fillet... and thanks for the reminder, need to take my weekly vit D and iron tablets. Feels like winter is getting me down but I just need to hold out for a couple more weeks!

[–] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] just_kitten@aussie.zone 3 points 22 hours ago

I need it to be back 😭 The cold and dark is getting into my bones!

[–] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago

You too mate! Some of these bouts of the flu take a bit of getting over and seem to hang around for a while.

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago

post viral syndrome is a thing

take care , hugs

[–] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ugh, I've been pushing myself through laundry and tidying the place a bit but I think now the CBF factor has won.

[–] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago

IKR? Done washing, prepped a silver beet frittata, some roast sweet potatoes and have a risotto in the instant pot. Really should roast the pumpkin I have while the oven is going but the couch is calling

[–] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wow it's really pelting down here

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Marge 🌽

[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Today is a write off. Fucking headache.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have one too but it's going away. Hope yours does go soon too.

Thanks, here's to Sunday headaches :(

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago

oh no

take care and don't feel bad 😘

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[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I didn’t get out of bed today. Slept all day. Not sick, at least I don’t think so, but I just could not be fucked.

I did some laundry before turning in so I’m going to spoon with the old baby until it’s time to feed her and then maybe do some folding if it’s dry. There’s paperwork I should at least start. Also the vitamin d weekly tablet I haven’t been taking.

Deciding whether I should try to take something at midnight in an attempt to sleep through.

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago

rest up, get your strength, if you do anything make sure it's good food and vitamins

lots of hugs

Took tomorrow off. Need up for pushing through it. Have 2 meetings I'm choosing to attend and that's it.

[–] just_kitten@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago

Oh bummer, looks like the ATO still haven't received info about my voluntary deductible contribution and I have an estimated return date now so they're almost done finalising it. So they're going to slap me with a huge tax bill even though I cleared out so much into super and I'll have to call or some shit to amend it. Uuuurrrrgh I thought this was going to be much more straightforward. I followed all the steps! If it wasn't for that bonus I would be ready to cry.

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 8 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I like to think as an aussie I'm pretty chill in regard to bugs and such but this place is trying me

Yesterday I saw a big spider walk out of my room, cross the hall and go into another room. Today there was a European wasp in the dunny . Cockroach in the basin, etc etc 😬

[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 8 points 1 day ago (7 children)

cross the hall and go into another room

lol just checking to see if everyone is enjoying their stay.

A year back one chased me across the room (and followed me when I changed direction). I don't mind spiders but that thing really didn't like me for some reason and it was actually disturbing. Ended up walking outside, it followed, closed the door, so I won that fight.

You insulted it's honour obviously lol

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[–] SituationCake@aussie.zone 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ok the drugs have mostly worked, headache has gone from mega to mild. Have put on a load of washing, emptied the dishwasher and put the robovac on in the bedroom. Small wins. Now thinking about lunch.

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Why do people insist on parading their dogs around Bunnings? I’m not against it, but, it seems like a bit of a phenomenon.

[–] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I am having a lot of trouble just moving today. I have a bad case of the shoulds. Should go to the beach. Should prep food. Should should. Ugh. Step one. Coffee. Bite to eat.

[–] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Feeling the same way. Midday has come and I'm still in my dressing gown. Boyo suggested going out for lunch and I cannot think of a single place I want to go.

[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

It’s pretty miserable as well out there, grey and super windy.

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[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

So I've been doing piano and guitar lessons for about six months, one instrument every fortnight. I'm not consistent enough in my practise, so I'm thinking about just doing guitar lessons. I've had some piano experience before and although I still suck, I don't suck at it as much as I suck at guitar.

I really want to be more consistent with practise and also being active. What are some barriers that you experience with forming consistent habits?

[–] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 4 points 23 hours ago

Try to break up the 'boring' stuff from lessons with songs you're interested in too. Spend a bit of time 'eating your vegetables' then you can work on songs you like.

Soon you'll be able to put it all together and identify the scales, keys, and rhythm you've learnt from practice in songs you've been practising

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago

I think it's good to do things at the same time of day

barriers, my barriers are interruptions and a tendency to do things for other people over doing things for myself

I find my best habits are actually injunctions I have told myself.

I must look after cats

I must be careful with money

i must have a clean kitchen by the end of the day

I must walk down the beach at least a few times a week

the trick is forming a new "I must"

[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Think of it like this:

5 minutes practice is better than no practice at all.

I make myself do it before I play. And even when I only do 5 mins a day, the results become obvious quickly, and I've been playing half my life.

Also, practice can be less boring if you make it musical and not just practice technique. You could record a really basic chord progression in C major, and play your A minor scale over the top and try to mess around and come up with some little melodies.

For technique, I would recommend using a metronome app. Start real slow.

Sorry for the overload

[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No worries at all. If you want more ideas, shoot me a message :)

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