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Hello,

Today I am pleased to announce the beginning of a new trans/NB oriented Ethically Non-Monogamous community here on Blahaj.

Goal is to have a safe place for trans people who are ENM to post about ENM, interest in ENM or about their ENM relationships. If you have any questions about ENM etc feel free to check out !ENM@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Thank you

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[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

is it just me or does "ethical non monogamy" just sound like we're trying to appeal to the straights? like saying "nooo trust us we're not the bad gays we're not cheaters". like it's any of their business what I do in my relationships.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

I've met plenty of cishet folks that practice ethical non-monogamy? Straight as heck swinger parties come under that umbrella too. It's just a more over-arching term than polyamory. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ethical_Slut

[–] rayquetzalcoatl@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I know loads of straight people who are in ENM relationships, who self describe it as ENM. It's just the term used :)

[–] AlwaysNurture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Good point. That is just the name that I know of that the whole group of different relationship types are grouped into, so that is why I personally use ENM. Any ideas of different names?

Fediverse fuck pit?

Just kidding.