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[CW: self harm][CW: suicidal thoughts] Loneliness (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by kiara@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Since the start of puberty I shut myself in my room, mostly only to come out for school/work and for visiting my father every second weekend because my parents are divorced.

A bit over two years ago I realized I was trans, but I could still live like that, being in my room most of the time. After starting HRT I began to feel lonely and feeling the need for friends, which I didn't feel before.

Now, at around three months after starting HRT I feel like I die if I continue to not have any social contacts and already harmed myself because of the loneliness. At least everyone who knows me is supportive and I managed to talk to my mother that we do more together like walking, but it didn't really help with the loneliness.

I have no idea how to make friends. I don't talk much, partly because I hate my voice, but also because it is difficult for me to find words and things to talk about and I can't say anything when I am in a group of more than a few people.

I don't really expect helpful advice here but anything would be appreciated. I mostly just wanted to write that all down.

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[–] kiara@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 15 hours ago

Thank you. I live in the middle of germany, so a bit far away