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Cis straight guy here who wouldn't be surprised if time machine me is trans/straight.
I've never had any strong attachment to gender or any dysphoria. My sexual preference is feminine woman with big masculine man, and I happen to be a big masculine man so that pairing works for me. I'm happily married with kids, so that's working for me too. Even with that though, I still feel like I'd want to be a small femme woman like half the time, but only in a sexual way.
I know that if I transitioned I'd be a large masc woman (at least for a while), and I wouldn't like that. I'm also perfectly happy being a man, and it almost feels like a purely sexual thing, not an identity thing. As someone who is (recently self-diagnosed lol) autistic, I've never felt much attachment to any identity at all.
Are these normal cis thoughts?
now obviously i cannot judge whether you are trans are not and only you can decide that. but "i wish i could transition but if i did i wouldn't like how i looked for a long time" is a really common form of dysphoria
Sounds extremely relatable to me. I also consider myself autistic and find gender hard to understand. Before I discovered labels like agender, I never connected signs I'm not very cis, so I'd also just think my interest in having a woman's body was solely sexual (and later realized I was wrong). But like... women (and some NBs/genderfluid at some times) are the people who generally want to have women's bodies during sex (not just like one time thing to try out). But I don't use any labels like woman and would prefer not being seen as a woman (although that probably would be better than being seen as a man) - I mostly just want to change my body and escape expectations for men.