Why can't you date now? I'm asking because I'm recently divorced and sober. It seems to me there's lots of people who don't drink now, especially 30s and up.

[–] joaomarrom@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not where I am, in my experience! I'm in my mid-30s and I've only had a single date in which there was no drinking, and that one went nowhere. I got ghosted by that date shortly thereafter, in fact lol

It's more of a me problem, to be honest... I'm just not good at this kind of stuff generally, and doing it stone cold sober doesn't make it any better at all. Hope things go better for you!

[–] sir_this_is_a_wendys@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah I see. Have you tried talking to dates about Hexbear?

[–] joaomarrom@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, I'm not really looking for anything serious, and if I talk about Hexbear she will ask me to marry her on the spot, so no

[–] sir_this_is_a_wendys@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Good point. I need to keep this in mind.