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[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 71 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I used to think my desire to play female characters was a "closeted trans" thing. It's not. I'm definitely a cis gendered male. I've realized, at least for me, it's more of a self worth thing. I don't want to play as something I don't particularly like, such as me, and so I play something as opposite as possible. I'm working on that, tho.

[–] drislands@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hell yeah brother. Never forget the most important step a man can take: the next one.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

Hahah. True, that.

[–] Toribor@corndog.social 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For most 3d games you spend 99% of the time looking at the backside of the character anyway. Lady butts are just better to look at generally.

Additionally in most character creation it seems easier to get a decent looking female character than a decent looking male character. I'm not entirely sure why but most male characters in games look like blocky fuzzy potatoes. When you start getting weird with fashion choices on top of that it just looks like a potato dressed like a goofball. With female characters you can go nuts with crazy hair colors, piercings, and wild fashion choices and it looks more deliberate somehow.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Bisexual woman here, so I agree with you on the butts, but straight girls and gay men do exist.

Okay feminism time. In my opinion, the reason that dude's look like potatoes in video games is most likely because of the gender disparities in the industry. There just isn't anyone that looks at men from the perspective of attraction.

[–] Toribor@corndog.social 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I think you're spot on.

Part of the reason I think it's a little easier to render women is that they typically have smoother less textured skin than men (video game women look like they are wearing makeup even if it makes no sense), and we're only just now getting the graphical fidelity to render realistic looking facial hair or fine stubble in realtime.

Not that long ago making stubble on a male character usually just involved putting an irregular brown shadow on their cheeks which can be pretty indistinguishable from dirt.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

While I don't disagree with those points, I just don't think the technical aspects are that much of the issue.

[–] Toribor@corndog.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh it's definitely a reflection of the makeup of the industry too. No disagreement there.

Ah, right you were explaining additional issues alongside it, sorry that was my bad reading comprehension!

[–] GTG3000@programming.dev 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, I was wondering that until modern games started changing voicelines to reflect the characters' gender.

The moment Drifter referred to my hunter as "Sister", all those doubts were cured.

[–] Mirshe@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ever since the appearance modding system went in, my Hunter's been pretty genderfluid - I tend to swap from male to female depending on how I feel that day.

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[–] pukeko@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am similarly cis gender, straight male (much to my more fluid spouse's amusement and dismay). I've just found the fem- voice actors to be better. Femshep, the female lead in Ghost Recon Wildlands, etc. Or maybe it's that the brah actors for the male characters sound so consistently dumb. And now it's just a thing I do.

PS. I hope you love yourself.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Working on it. Thanks for the support.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago

I like how this meme is crafted to be life-ruiningly specific for maybe 2 people in the whole world, but we all get to blithely enjoy the anti-humour

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 41 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Out of the loop. I don’t get it.

[–] TOModera@lemmy.world 128 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's a setup for them saying you may identify as Trans, then switching it up by explaining some news for you, as in something said in the news, aka a storm coming

[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.de 35 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Oh well. I thought there was a joke about being trans in Florida.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Either option is a good reason to leave that state.

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[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago

In the years since this joke first floated out into the tubes of the internet, Florida has gotten specifically worse for trans people, to the point that your thought would be quite plausible.

[–] skulblaka@startrek.website 10 points 1 year ago

Trans floridians please evacuate the storm, the rest of em can stay there

[–] Plopp@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Ah. I'm slow. Also, "ha ha".

[–] tourist@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's just a regular anti-joke

I think it's a big meme in the transgender community that if you are assigned male at birth and choose to be a female in videogames etc. it means you may be trans

Instead of "you may be trans", they hit you with a pretty scary weather forecast thank god I don't live there

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[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I often choose female characters in games because I like variety and male characters are super common. I always make them non-white if given an option, too, although non-human is best of all!

[–] TheSlad@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I always choose female characters in games with a third person camera. If I'm gonna be staring at them the whole time I play they better be nice on the eyes!

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've heard that reason a lot, but I'm usually too busy kicking ass to pay attention to hers. And I prefer outfits that look intimidating rather than skimpy.

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[–] sorrybookbroke@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I play a girl in dark souls because dark souls 2 stole my gender

That coffin changed it all ~~boys~~ gals

[–] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Hello fellow dark souls 2 enjoyer. The Internet had made me think there were no others.

[–] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] BrotherL0v3@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Power stancing

Zweihander parries

Small white soapstone

Covenant of Champions

Bonfire Ascetics

Dark Souls 2 had a lot of cool things that didn't get enough credit.

[–] Belgdore@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

If they would have called it something else people would like it more. If they called bloodborne or sekiro dark souls and shoehorned in some lore, people would hate those games.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I loved dark souls 2. It has a lot of really neat things. Just a couple of questionable design paradigms keep it from being a top tier FS game, but the worst of the best is still pretty fuckin good.

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not enough playable spider girls...

[–] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

A close friend of mine is making a playable-spider-girl-based game.

I'm in the process of programming a procedural spider walk for it: https://youtu.be/oeBFCxbtwXM

The spider body is placeholder, it will become a drider. The plan is to make the legs able to seek and grip on arbitrary 3d geometry, including flailing when no good purchase is available, and allow the spider to traverse on any surface.

Edit: I am also chronically ill but slowly finding stability, don't hold your breath for this to come out.

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Thats oddly satisfying to watch. Best of luck!

There are dozens of us weirdos out their with questionable taste.

[–] Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 year ago

Thanks! I think that's a good sign :)

I'm not going to tell you you're wrong about me being a weirdo with questionable taste.

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[–] drcobaltjedi@programming.dev 7 points 1 year ago

I always do non-human if the option is given too. Its just more fun to be a lizard person or an alien, if not, I go for "eh, that looks enough like me"

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I have a fascination with collars. I want to be a dog. Where is the video game that lets me play as a dog?

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 47 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Okami

Parappa the Rapper

Sam and Max

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 37 points 1 year ago

That's on me, I set the bar too low.

[–] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

Sleeping Dogs

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Kick

Punch

It's all in the mind

[–] debil@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Tokyo Jungle

[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

There's a PS2 game literally called a dog's life where you play as a dog.

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[–] SiblingNoah@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

Thanks for letting me know! I left a window open at home and don’t want my precious BLÅHAJ to blow away!

[–] kogasa@programming.dev 12 points 1 year ago

Shoutout to my fort myers and cape coral homies

[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

See also Cas confessing to Dean, followed by world events.

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