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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Edie still wants a LadaBecause it's a "vintage car" insurance is completely and utterly fucking stupid agony-consuming

You can't drive the car more than 6000 km/year. You can't use it as your everyday car, in fact you have to register a different car as your everyday car. You have to be 25/30^[1]^ years old. You are only allowed to drive it between the 15th of March and November^[2]^. It has to be locked inside of a garage/building when not in use (exceptions for when you are on trip). It has to be historically correct and in "original condition".

This isn't a car anymore it's a self moving piece of metal you show off. LEMME DRIVE IT AS A FUCKING CAR.

  1. I looked at two different companies they had different requirements. Of course I'm not that old.
  2. Again different requirements for the two, either the 31th of Oct. or the 15th of Nov
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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Feeling good, today was a productive day meow-coffee

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[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (8 children)

kinda a downer thing about abuse also SEX MENTIONEDso i broke up with my partner of about a year about a month ago

i learned that after cutting communication with them from a mutual friend that they had called me transmisogynist bc i was attributing them "standing up for themselves" as a threat because of me thinking of them as a dangerous cis man. obviously i did not think this, and the "standing up" for themselves was them yelling and insulting me, usually over perceived slights that were not what i was trying to communicate.

while we were dating they had also made a lot of transphobic comments towards me and other AFAB trans people. like saying AFAB trans people have it infinitely easier than AMAB trans people and that there was little point to me topping cos i'd have to use a strap.

so yea i dont feel great about all that lmao kitty-cri

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)
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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What if, hypothetically, the trans mega could get more comments than the news mega debate-me-debate-me

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

Hair growth update: I look like a UFC fighter from Dagestan

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

the good news is that now i have soft girl skin :)))

the bad news is that it fucking hurts to shave now OWIE

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (23 children)

Looking for recommendations for trans/queer narratives. I've recently watched I saw the TV glow and played Celeste and am looking for more.

I am unlikely to read a book, just being honest here. If there's an audiobook available maybe.

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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I remember wanting red hair as a kid and then I saw a boy with it and I got sad bc I thought red hair looked better on girls.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

CW: depression mentioned but within a sister appreciation postMy cister is letting me cuddle with her Blahaj because I am feeling so depressed. I love her so much, I couldn't have asked for a better sister.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

My sisters, we cannot allow the News Mega to overtake us! pavlichenko

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Fucked up how my dad started balding in his 50s but me and my siblings (including my sister) are losing hair at our 20s

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (9 children)

I had a good opportunity to come out to one of my friends last night, but didn't. "coming out" would probably have just been saying I wish I wasn't a guy sometimes and maybe asking for they/them pronouns.

:cri: like actually how am I going to be able to do this, especially with family. I just want to curl up in bed and stay there.

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[–] ComradePlatypus@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

::: spoiler Had real positive moment of clarity about my gender the other day. (CW intrusive dysphoric thought, NSFW) As some might recall their @ComradeEchidna/Platypus lore, I do softcore bdsm photography modelling (for myself via self-photography it's a whole thing). So I've also seen a lot of bdsm photography of different genders, cis/trans, etc And I was thinking about the phenomena of old sad looking cis crossdressers. You see them on deviant art etc. Just look tragic, sad eyes, awkward looking, etc. And I had an intrusive thought "what's the difference between them and you?". Like felt pretty brutal.

So then I went to look at some stuff I'd done months ago, not recently, and I looked at it with some time and slightly more objectivity and I was like "woah I just see a woman there!". And I was like huh, lightbulb. Not I could possibly be a woman someday if I put in the work, but like I can be a woman right now (or have been in the past too).

At least some of the time, because I'm still thinking a sort of Genderfluid/Non binary situation but maybe somewhat more bigender IDK? Anyway it left me feeling pretty zen and less anxious.

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[–] anonochronomus@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

I'm on week 6 of HRT, I feel like shit still boy-moding. I need to level up my girl perk tree.

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Trans mega just eating all the other megas at this point xok

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

almost at 666 comments again snom

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Thinking about how much happier I was, in general and with my body pre puberty. Really peaked. I wonder if second puberty will make me feel that way again.

To be clear this is not sad posting

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[–] shipwreck@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Dear trans comrades, I am a defector from the news mega and I am seeking political asylum at c/traaaannnns to escape from the repressive regime of SeventyTwoTrillion. I am eagerly awaiting for my political asylum to be granted.

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[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

whenever i post in this sub the two ghosts look cute together in my comment history ngl

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (7 children)

how come there are SO MANY pretty girls out there and i am not allowed to kiss all of them kitty-cri

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[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Tried buying new glasses today, and the store assistant, when I ask her for help, sends me to the mens section. I do not have new glasses.

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

Summer is fun cause I can't tell if the people are staring at me cause I'm trans, or oggling cause I'm finally comfortable enough to show some skin. Either way it's a weird feeling.

[–] Ecohex@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (19 children)

probably an uncontroversial take here but i think that the way people talk down about pumpkin spice lattes is somewhat sexist

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (14 children)

I'm a little overwhelmed right now, in a good way. I'm going to be a woman. I'm going to look like a woman. People are going to look at me and think "damn, she's cute". Maybe even be ~~jealous~~ envious of me. I never thought that'd be a thing for me.

I can't wait to start E

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Ecohex@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (4 children)

now i'm doing game dev shit for fun am i legally obligated to get programming socks like i'm a meme from a decade ago?

they're really not my style and it's also quite warm atm

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[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I am now reading my university texts out loud for voice training, and it really is exhausting after a short time, but I can still manage it wthout my resonance slipping into my chest, for a paragraph or two.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Almost forgot to take my Cypro. madeline-shock

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Voice training is hard madeline-sadeline I'm surprised by how much of the info is new to me, it's almost like my past experience with my voice harms me when it comes to this.

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