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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 239 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Going to college doesnt allow you to buy a house at 30 either lol

[–] AdamEatsAss@lemmy.world 51 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I majored in buying houses

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[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

NOT IF YOU DRINK THE STARBUCKS EVERY DAY.

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I found a blurb that Americans spend an average of $22/week at coffee shops. That's nearly $1200 per year!

With a median US home price of $410,000 and a minimum FHA loan down payment of 3.5%, all you need to do it save that for twelve years and never have anything go seriously wrong in the meantime. Then you too can pay about $3300 per month for 30 years, ultimately spending nearly $900,000 for your $410,000 loan.

[–] 18107@aussie.zone 9 points 1 week ago

That's ignoring that the house prices are going up by more than $1,200 per year. If you save everything, you'll still be further away from owning a house every year.

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[–] fluckx@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I CAN LIVE WITH THAT AS LONG AS YOU I CAN STILL HAVE MY AVOCADO TOAST.

[–] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

Rather, it puts you in debt. And now you have even less power. We should normalize everyone being able to live and not force college on everyone. But also make it free/super cheap so people can attend if they want without having to suffer financially

[–] happydoors@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

It did the opposite for me!

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 133 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Op thinks we can afford a house by 30 if we go to college.

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[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 71 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I went to college, I'm way over 30. Buying a house is a vague dream.

[–] cenzorrll@piefed.ca 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I got lucky and bought a house in 2015 at 28, I barely pulled it off with roommates, barely pulling it off now with a fiancé. There's no way I could buy a house now. I'm not even sure we could upgrade if we needed to.

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[–] atcorebcor@sh.itjust.works 47 points 1 week ago (6 children)

What makes you think people with degrees can afford a house by 30?

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 7 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I think people with degrees are less likely to own a house by the age of 30, because they studied longer and have to pay off debt first. The only reason i own a house is because i found one for super cheap and renovated it myself.

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[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 week ago

You don't need to. All you really need is to go for a walk in your desired neighbourhood, find a house you love, knock on the door and introduce yourself. Ask any questions you have about the property, then kill the occupants, flay them and wear their skin as your own as you lead your new charmed life, for as long as you can.

[–] trolololol@lemmy.world 28 points 1 week ago (4 children)

You kidding me dude? I'm past 40 and not chance to own a house. Grad and masters degree, working in IT. Ah and uni was good and free. granted that was in the developing world, now living in 1st world, but still no house.

When I was 7 my parents owned a house AND bought a beach house.

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[–] notsosure@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Exactly! Learn a good profession like electrician, woodworker, furniture making… any kind of profession where you can create beautiful products and services customers love.

[–] Swaus01@piefed.social 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When we're at school the teachers never actually take the time to talk about:

  • what non-university educated careers
  • what they involve
  • how to pursue trades based jobs

And it's weird, because I'm sure everyone would love to at least dabble in woodworking or some other form of craftsmanship. But they don't get the chance to.

The school-university pipeline works for a lot of people, but I don't think uni straight after school is the ideal situation for most people. It means we lose sight of what education is actually for, outside of progression to further qualifications

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[–] frustrated@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

38 with a masters degree. No house in sight. Good luck. Remember, there is always [redacted].

[–] MrMcGasion@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Squatters rights?

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

You don't. None of my highly educated friends own a house while the ones working in trades do.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Where they give you houses for going to college? Did I missed a promotion?

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[–] Vorticity@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I got an MS in a STEM field and wasn't able to buy a house until I was 36, supervising multiple employees, and married to someone who also contributed.

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[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

if you go to college you can't even afford to pay for it by 30.

[–] tensorpudding@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Since you said "house" I'm going to push back a little bit. Housing is unaffordable and we should address it but single-family homes are not a feasible solution for a lot of places and situations.

The only people I know with houses are the ones with rich parents and it doesn’t matter if they went to college or not.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (4 children)

You shouldn't have to work to be able to live, period.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 20 points 1 week ago

The right to live with dignity should not be dependent on productivity.

Anyone working full time should always be able to easily provide for themselves and a "reasonable size" family.

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[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I think this post should be home that you own. I'm going to say something controversial in that, in the US, I actually think houses should be expensive. I think a single family dwelling >1500sqft on a half acre or more of land is a luxury, and most people don't need to have that much land and space all to themselves. The problem is that that's ALL that's available for most regions in the US. The US is suffering from foolish post-war suburban centric zoning codes that prohibit building medium density housing ("the missing middle"). We need to change zoning codes across the country to encourage building up "gentle density" and mixed use areas, even in rural regions, because they use land and infrastructure much more effectively and efficiently. They raise more revenue for towns while bringing down home prices. If everyone had the option to buy a place of their own <1000sqft with a small land footprint, I don't think there would be as much dissatisfaction with not being able to afford a "house".

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[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

you used to be able to afford a house on a single minimum wage job

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[–] SunshineJogger@feddit.org 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I'm over 40 and could only buy a house somewhere in nowhere land with massive commute needs.

It's not feasible and I earn way over average salary.

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[–] partofthevoice@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

There was once a time when people educated themselves not because they wanted a particular job in the economy, but because they saw value in education and wanted to participate in the human tradition of advancing the specie’s ability to understand and use nature. You didn’t need school to be a blacksmith, for example, but perhaps just an apprenticeship (experience).

There’s a point to be made here, about how this degrades the value of education. It’s great for capitalism, making survival—or “living well”—contingent on qualifications derived from paid education. But what have we lost in this process? It feels, to me at least, like we’ve created a culture where education is a mere lineitem on a checklist. How might that change what education is, what it’s expected to be, and what sort of innovation comes from it?

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago

Depending on the field, going to college might not significantly improve your chances.

[–] discocactus@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Should go to trade school instead.

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[–] LordCrom@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Im glad i bought my home 20 years ago..... no way i could afford a 3-2 at todays going rate.

I blame all the house flipping shows. Made everyone think they could buy a house, paint it, then resell for 100k more.

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[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 6 points 1 week ago

We should go to college for free if we choose to and also be able to afford a house regardless of our employment type I agree.

Reasons for going to college....

Our president sucks balls in every way possible and you would like to be president and do good via the knowledge gained.

You would like to design spacecraft.

You would like to give others brain surgeries with successful outcomes.

Your bus in never on time and you would like to fix that or have a say in the reasons why a bus might be late.

You like cheese and would like to discover new types of cheese via biology and chemistry. Oh shit, you accidentally invented antigravity, there goes your cheese.

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