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[–] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I brought this up in my friend group, and, to quote one of them, the general consensus is "is it weird that I actually don't care"

[–] kokesh@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago

Deleting my account

[–] comador@lemmy.world 97 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bye bye Discord, you were never that good to begin with anyway.

[–] 51dusty@lemmy.world 69 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I will never understand the move from forums to discord. when discord is the only way to get assistance, I go find another product.

[–] brsrklf@jlai.lu 43 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Discord is terrible for assistance.

Search is ineffective, you have to actually fight the UI to go back to older messages, depending on the device there are still somehow cases in which you can't go back to the beginning of a thread. But thank you for putting a huge reminder that I am currently "reading through old messages", silly me, why would I want to do that.

Oh, you're trying to scroll down through old posts? Let me suddenly refresh the list for no reason and bring you back to the most recent ones. Everything past the third screen might as well not exist anymore.

And of course, there is the slight problem of every useful info written there being completely invisible to the rest of the internet.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

What amazes me is how often there are a bunch of sweaty nerds in the chat willing to answer every lazy-ass question known to man.

If they expended a fraction of that effort on making a manual and a FAQ, they wouldn't even need a discord channel.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

It's easier to set up than a forum. I suppose. But messier.

A forum is much better suited for the purpose a lot of people are using Discord for.

They should be using Discord for voice chat and streaming, that's what it's good at. Use a fairly tool for what it does well. Not for what it does poorly.

[–] roserose56@lemmy.zip 5 points 22 hours ago

It was fun knowing you all! See you around.

[–] Red_October@lemmy.world 47 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Fuck Discord is the common message now, but how about we amplify good alternatives? It'll be easier to tell Discord to fuck off if we're already set to move elsewhere.

[–] comador@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

Alternatives

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

Stoat chat is still and likely always will be a flaming pile of mismanaged trash.

Matrix doesn't actually support the features people actually use discord for. It's a great alterative to teams or business communications but as a discord alterative it's fucking awful.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

I see rocket chat is used by the US Army and Air Force.

Not sure how secure that is.

And Mattermost is used by the US Air Force and Space Force, so same issue

[–] rainbowbunny@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Keep in mind everyone that Stoat still doesn't currently protect it's users information and is centralized. It doesn't use encryption but it is very seamless.

You can host your own Stoat instance but it doesn't communicate with the main one.

The devs have said they plan to add more security features in the future yet still don't make it a priority. The host of Stoat should be able to see everyone's messages, including in DM's, due to the lack of E2E encryption.

Once they add more security features I imagine they will be much more popular in general.

In my view, security isn't a feature, it's a design choice.

I have no ill wishes towards Stoat, but I've never seen a developer convincingly implement security after the fact.

[–] Trilogy3452@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Teamspeak, Mumble? These were popular for gaming communities, not sure what happened to these apps

[–] WormFood@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I looked in stoat's issue tracker and there is an issue asking for video chat which is 5 years old and still open. Safe to say it's a dead project.

[–] quips@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

Matrix is mature enough, and has a better philosophy. Just the best choice atm.

[–] Nighed@feddit.uk 2 points 22 hours ago

If I understand correctly, they recently rebuilt all of the voice/video stuff. Video should be coming soon, it's more of a resourcing issue for their servers.

I looked at self hosting, but it's a bit of a mess currently.

[–] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Forum's, websites, all the shit we used to do.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The main thing I will miss from discord is the ease of streaming with a small group of friends. That was main reason we chose it over alternatives back in the day.

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[–] Flames5123@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Ah yes let me open up a voice chat of a forum.

[–] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 15 hours ago

Mumble has a web client... You can integrate that into your forum.

Sometimes as a community organizer you gotta put effort into solutions.

[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] superglue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

What do i say to my friends to get them to leave? Ive already tried and they won't.

Sadly this change won't really affect them so they are not going to care. I've wanted to leave for a long time now.

[–] ohshit604@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

What do i say to my friends to get them to leave? Ive already tried and they won't.

I just abruptly switched to Matrix and encouraged anyone who wanted to get a hold of me to do the same, held my ground and did not look back, now a good handful of my friends have a Matrix account.

[–] sobchak@programming.dev 3 points 20 hours ago

I joined a Matrix group, and the UX frustrated one person so much, they just quit. Kinda surprised me some people care about UX that much. I guess I'm used to using software developed by hobbyists, lol.

[–] FauxLiving@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Same.

If someone isn't willing to take a minimum amount of effort to stay in contact with me, then I'm not losing much if I don't ever talk to them again. They don't have to quit Discord, they just have to find me elsewhere.

[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 day ago

Just leave.

[–] MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is there a fediverse alternative for Messenger? Because I currently partially use Discord as a non-Meta alternative.

[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

Stoat has been recommended a lot, and it appears to be open source.

[–] sobchak@programming.dev 6 points 20 hours ago

Signal is ok. SimpleX theoretically has better privacy guarantees (metadata privacy, more decentralized). Matrix is ok for communities; I think it exposes a lot of metadata though (who you are talking to, not what you're talking about).

[–] quips@slrpnk.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] rektdeckard@lemmy.world 8 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Matrix voice and video chat is sadly under-equipped for the only kind of thing I want (team gaming and screen share). They are working on moving to a new realtime media transport but until it manifests I can't see it as an alternative. I've read about Revolt and some others but I don't see anything that seems capable. Happy to be corrected on this!

EDIT: it looks like Element Call is more or less ready, might try setting up a server this weekend.

[–] Atropos@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (5 children)

My group mostly only uses discord for video chat during D&D. Is there a recommended alternative? We don't use ANY of the other features. I'm looking into jitsi now.

[–] quips@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Matrix (what some call element, element is a matrix client) has end to end video conferencing and is decentralized like Mastodon

[–] Turret3857 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Element w. Element call is ok. Signal works too

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

now its another thing to determine whether a server you are looking at has set up support for Element call, or is still on the older calling method not supported by the new apps...

[–] riquisimo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

I used to use https://talky.io/ before discord.

[–] markko@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Haven't used it for a few years, but Jitsi was great if all you need is video chat

[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

This is what I and others I know use it for as well. Virtual dnd for one or two while the rest of us are in person.

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I hope me being in 30 different coomer discords helps me out

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They've outright said you will need to verify regardless of what your current usage is.

[–] baronvonj@piefed.social 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Everything I've said is everybody is categorize as a teen unless the provide face/ID verification. So anonymous should still be allowed in general, just not to servers/channels set as age restricted.

Correct, takeaway being that being they're not going to assume you're an adult because you're in a shit ton of coomer discords.

[–] GutterRat42@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I'll just begin saying whippersnappers, and bees knees.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

Shrek image still works?