Just send them this image
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Might just send them this meme.
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Yes. I am still searching for a way to communicate this in a socially acceptable way but one that also doesn't cost me all my daily allotment of energy.
Just waiting for some german to pop up and go: "Of course! there is an word for exactly that! It is Aansprakelijkheidswaardevaststellingsveranderingen!"
That really isn't as impressive as it sounds. English compounds are often (but far from always) separated by spaces or hyphens while German compounds tend to have no separation. Thus German compounds technically qualify as words while English ones don't, even though they are functionally the same.
The word you pasted is Dutch rather than German, but it literally translates to "culpabilityassessmentadjustments", or "culpability-assessment-adjustments", or "culpability assessment adjustments" if you insist. Like with English you can just substitute one part of the compound with another to change its meaning. Aansprakelijkheidswaardevaststellingsbegroting means "culpability assessment budget".
English can have unseparated compounds too, like "un|separated" or "base|ball", but it feels weird to invent new unseparated compounds, while in German and Dutch it feels weird to leave those spaces. But a German compound word is as ordinary as an English compound.
What a nice Wortzusammensetzungserklärung :)
The space separating compound words is called Deppenleerzeichen in German (idiot's space/-ing).
It would be fine to write Deppen-Leerzeichen, but never Deppen Leerzeichen. That would be an idiot's space.
I send them memes, they get it
❤️ Bravo Six, going dark.
This is a proper response 🤣
I get like this often. I'm fortunate enough to have friends with whom I have enough of a rapport that we have shorthands for stuff like this (usually established after a couple times of attempting to articulate this sentiment (or more commonly, months after it would have been ideal to articulate this sentiment, after many guilt ridden apologies for not replying.))
For example, with one of my friends, we use a black heart emoji to relay the sentiment in the OP (black to distinguish it from the generic heart react). I like having this shorthand because it means that when I receive a message from a friend and I'm too low brain to have any hope of replying, I'm more likely to be able to attend least read the message — being able to trivially communicate both my affection and my burnout makes reading the message feel less overwhelming, and disrupts the cycle of shame. And sometimes reading that message from a friend is exactly what I needed if I'm feeling low