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I feel more bored nowadays...

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[–] Inkstainthebat@pawb.social 43 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

To be frank the overwhelming amount of trump news is starting to make me feel drained
I should post some art on the furry communities to cheer up the place

[–] TronBronson@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

We don’t have enough small speciality communities yet unfortunately. Bring the furries and the cheer. I miss all the professional/trade subs. Don’t see many of them active on here.

[–] ProjectPatatoe@lemmy.world 13 points 5 days ago

MY BAD, I'LL SPEAK A LITTLE LOUDER (:

... I need to post more lol

[–] dkc@lemmy.world 37 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

I’ve noticed I spend less time on Lemmy than I did on Reddit. Some of that may have to do with content, but I think it’s mostly Lemmy isn’t manipulating what I’m looking at to keep the dopamine hits coming. It definitely feels like withdrawal at times.

I am learning to appreciate the joy of opening Lemmy after I checked it a few hours ago and not seeing anything new and having the freedom to close the app again.

[–] katkit@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Absolutely this. I banned the big platforms from my phone and only use Fediverse apps now. When I opened Instagram it kinda felt like when I had a relapse and became flooded with sadness, rage and Weltschmerz. Here I check for a couple of minutes, still my conditioning to reach for scrolling and move on with my day.

And whenever I write a comment here I'm not scared to regret it soon after.

[–] TronBronson@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Just like the good old days. Check facebook book for the party and bounce. Long before algos and built in games.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 days ago

Yeah, it keeps me honest. If there’s nothing more to look at, I’m more apt to pick up a book or work on the side project more.

[–] jimmy90@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (2 children)

i think the users might actually be slightly increasing but the doomerism is dominating

I find myself scrolling here less because of all the doomerism and bad news. It’s just exhausting to be bombarded with it all day.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago

All redditors coming here

[–] katkit@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Not sure about Lemmy, but I have noticed an influx in loops.video content recently, especially in my native language. That's probably because Loops is starting to be usable now. There's some YouTubers I already followed and even some local progressive politicians. This year a project named "digital day of independence" started, that educates people every month about how to switch from big tech, which probably also has something to do with it.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 9 points 6 days ago

It happens from time to time. Post and comment more.

[–] Delvin4519@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

I honestly don't mind. Before this was the replacement go to site after the API fiasco elsewhere. Now I feel like coming on here only makes me sad and depressed; so I stopped coming on here even though I was mostly a lurker. I stopped getting any enjoyment from browsing the internet or my old internet hobbies.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

People started yelling at each other more than on all the stuff I blocked on reddit, so I only check it every couple weeks now. I check back bc if it ends up 100% negative I'll delete it from my phone, but I still have hope ppl will be kinder

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 6 points 6 days ago

The devs seem happy with Lenny not growing and the numbers seem to indicate that Lemmy isn't growing unless brought on by an external source.

[–] Pamasich@kbin.earth 4 points 6 days ago

Mbin has "loud" subscribing, which notifies you on any post added to a community (or posted by a user). I don't know if Lemmy has something similar, but that really worked wonders for me in making the fediverse feel more alive.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

No, not really

[–] markkkkkk@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago

Ohh I actually thought I was the only one, it’s too quiet I kind of like quiet but maybe with time would fun like Reddit

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 95 points 1 week ago

Not me, but it's important to remember that Lemmy doesn't just feed you an algo. You have to actually post things.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 61 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nah, I'm just checking it more often, which is a sign I need to take some preventative corrections towards my mental health now that I think of it

Hey now, no need to call me out so hard lol

[–] iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world 55 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Not quieter, no, but the memes are all gone now. It's just "This is how fucked the world is" now. I miss the funny memes.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Make sure you're following some fun stuff too. Otherwise it just gets depressing.

[–] Dave@lemmy.nz 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Personally I try to follow only fun stuff! Subscribed/Home feed for fun, All feed for doom and gloom.

Ooohhh smart

[–] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I post funny animations to !animation@piefed.social sometimes, and there's !sillydrawingrequests@sopuli.xyz for some other fun stuff :D

There's also !mealtimevideos@lemmy.cafe.

Thanks, subscribed.

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