It's important to know what your boundaries are and why they are there before someone else chooses them for you. Anthropomorphizing programs, especially LLMs that appear more human, is dangerous and has plagued AI research and tech since it's beginning. It doesn't make decisions or think, it predicts token sequences. It's a guessing machine. It can't be responsible, legally or morally, for what it produces. People have already tricked themselves into giving agents full access that have destroyed data and systems and lives by misunderstand what these tools are and how they work.
And that's not including the ethical implications of more data centers hurting communities and nature, ram and disk shortages, more economic and political instability by further wealth inequality these systems are monetized under, etc. When it's you and whether you'll keep your job or not and have people depending on you it's hard to hold fast, and if you can't find tech jobs without being forced to use unethical tech should or can you change careers.