The golden pronouns
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My pronouns are
function getPronouns() {
const dateNow = new Date();
if(dateNow.getMonth()===3 && dateNow.getDate()===1) {
return "clown/clownself";
}
else {
const timeNow = dateNow.getTime();
if(timeNow%3 === 0) {
return "they/them";
}
else if(timeNow%5 === 0) {
return "she/her";
}
else if(timeNow%7 === 0) {
return "he/him";
}
else {
return "void/voidself";
}
}
}
console.log(getPronouns());
Please run this code in your browser console before interacting with me to determine my pronouns at that point in time.
I am pro anti-nouns.
Meaning that I may or may not like you, depending on how/what you parse that statement to mean.
Our pronouns, comrade
Lol mirror/your pronouns is a selection hexbear has
But the pronouns I use for myself are I/me!
i agree with me
Mine/mine!
"I activate Pot of HRT, which allows me to draw two new pronouns from my deck."
My pronouns are yoink'd/yours
Instructions are unclear, can I call you mine?
Order all pronoun sets by how frequently you think they are applied to me, then choose the second most frequent. That set is today's pronouns.
I get very angry if you are wrong.
Dude just wait until I show you nested genders, or Gender View ViewGender models. Gene was right, though he was just trying to sell merch.
Are your genders object oriented?
Can they be expressed in trinary?
Do they accept NULL or NaN inputs, or do they need to be safely initialized with a sentinel value?
If I have to implement one more fucking abstract gender factory so help me god
Dont worry, I have permission to use this:
Truly inspiring, if only it wasn't disabled in game.
She(She(She(She(Her))))
is this a lisp?
(/ she her)
Is there such a thing like a pronouns-bomb? And would that be called "pronbombo"?
what if two people like that talk?
They call it gay and make out
Ouroboros gender
It's a paradox, like time traveling to kill your parents.
But I use I/me pronouns for myself. That'll get confusing real quick.
i don't think so
I have no idea who either of us is talking about.
My pronouns are the opposite of yours
I’ve heard ‘any pronoun stated respectfully’
I liked the way Leslie Feinberg put it:
I care which pronoun is used, but people have been respectful to me with the wrong pronoun and disrespectful with the right one. It matters whether someone is using the pronoun as a bigot, or if they are trying to demonstrate respect.
Fae coded
My pronouns are me/mine.