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how do I find a guy who’s okay with dating a trans woman, is not a chaser, and is not an egg? it’s never going to happen is it
Trans men sound like the best bet here, t4t doesn't have to be gay.
Het t4t is the only kind of het that's okay :^) ^/j^
On a serious note, it always feels weird to say about queer M/W couples that they're in a het relationship, like, i know so many bi couples that are in relationships like that while being openly queer. If they want to identify as "in a straight relationship", that's obviously up to them, and i get that there may be M/W t4t couples that just want to live stealth as a straight couple and not be bothered, but i know plenty of bisexual people who define their "straight passing" relationships as queer because both partners know something outside of heteronormativity and it shapes the way their relationship works.
That's why I didn't say "straight" lol, I would definitely say a t4t het relationship could be queer at the same time. Maybe even often is? But "straight" means cishet to me, basically. Is there a different term I should be using for this type of relationship? Did I say something wrong?
Nah, it's all good.