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[–] dingus@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A lot of times I say "hey" instead!

[–] Zeppo@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I say howdy, though that makes some people mistakenly assume I’m from the south.

[–] gndagreborn@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Happens to me all the time. Then if I append a y'all, outside of Texas, it's game over.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago

I'm in Indiana, and "Howdy y'all" flies perfectly fine here.

[–] GlitterInfection@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

This is me in you form!

[–] Eylrid@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Howdy, howdy, howdy, I'm Woody

[–] reallyzen@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yo. It's cringe AF for a pot-bellied, mid-50's white dude to say but it's kinda automatic.

Probably worse in my native French.

[–] Broken_Monitor@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Its either that or Hey. Weirdly, hey is my more formal greeting I use on the corpos at work. Yo is for people I’m cool with.

[–] RustyShackleford@programming.dev 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] tpihkal@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

General Kenobi

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 9 points 1 year ago
[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] robolemmy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Found Alexander Graham Bell’s account

[–] sagrotan@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm a "Moin" person. Northern German for ... Every conceivable greeting phrase on any time of day, night or apocalypse. And a complete conversation, too.

[–] EmoDuck@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

As a south German living in the north I like to throw a few "Servus" around now and then. Keeps people on their toes, never know just what to expect

[–] Zectivi@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I’m a hello, but I noticed my manager is a “hey how’s it’s going?” person. I asked him how many people actually tell him how things are going, and he said very few do. If we’re walking together, we now make note of the people who do or don’t answer.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

.ʎɐp'ƃ ʎɐs ǝʍ os uɐᴉlɐɹʇsn∀

[–] teft@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I live in colombia and i just learned a couple new ways to say hi that aren’t just “hola”

You can say:

¿Que mas? means what’s up?

¿Como vamos¿ means how are we doing?

¿Bien o que? means good or what?

All of them are greetings.

[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

¿que onda? if you're a cool kid

[–] teft@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

That’s mexican spanish.

[–] trolololol@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Buenas

¿Que tal?

[–] Chai@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

It varies according to the time of the day and or who I'm greeting. I think I mostly say 'good morning' etc.

[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I usually go with good morning, regardless of time of day

[–] neidu2@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

"Hey, guys"

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

[nod]..... and if i really like you [nod up]

[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Or raised eyebrows and smirk if I’m tired.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I'm more of a Mrs Doubtfire "Helllllooooooo" type of person.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFeaK5UJ8O4

[–] ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago
[–] CaptObvious@literature.cafe 3 points 1 year ago

Usually some version of “Hey!”

[–] PopOfAfrica@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I say howdy.

[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Hi hi, or hoi hoi in Dutch.
It looks weird when I actually write it down though.

[–] multicolorKnight@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Depends:
"Hello" or "Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening" - express deference or with people I don't know
"Hi" - more casual, for coworkers or acquaintances
"Hey", "Yo", or "'Sup" - with close confidants
"Greetings" (with an over-pronounced T, I'm American) - flying the weird flag

[–] SkyerixBOI@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Casually, Hey Friends, Ay / yo Professionally, Hello

Context and all that.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

If I am not familiar with the person, I'm a "hiya/heya" person.

If it's someone I'm familiar with/am glad to see, it's a super sweet "Hellloooooo!"

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I'm an affectionate person to.my friends and tend to say 'hi honey!'.

[–] cradac@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

I'm a more sinister, third thing (haiiiiiii!)

[–] selinson@mander.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

"Huhu" (I'm from Germany)

[–] SteveXVII@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

Hi, or when I am speaking dutch: hi or hoi.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[–] Cover_czar@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago
[–] shikitohno@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I stick to "How are ye?" most of the time I say something, otherwise just a nod or a wave.

[–] stelelor@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

'Allo-'allo is my default greeting for most people I know personally. It's bilingual (English-French) without devolving into the soulless Bonjour-Hi of customer service.

[–] orangeNgreen@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I’m surprised I’m not seeing more “what’s up, brother?”

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[–] l_b_i@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago

hello, or greetings.

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