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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Anyone have experience with getting a US passport? I have my birth certificate and valid ID, but the names don't match. I had a court-ordered name change in another state, but don't remember exactly when or where and I don't know how to look it up to order a copy. It was well over a decade ago. My birth state makes it very easy to amend birth certificates, but the processing time is lengthy and I haven't needed to do it yet. It's on my list, but can I get a passport without waiting on that?

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does anyone have experience with the US postal system in an employment capacity? I guess what I mean is it a safe job to have and transition in? I need to find different employment and I've heard it's trans friendly.

[–] FemboyStalin@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

I met a trans woman letter carrier once. She seemed to really like her job but I didn't get to know her well enough to know deeper thoughts on it.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

geordi-no hair on your ass

geordi-yes hair down to your ass

[–] Des@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

i did the thing. came out to based trans co-worker, we had a cool discussion.

now i will stop posting about this because when she shows up here i don't want her to identify my account lol

might delete later

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

NEW MEGA HYPE!!! party-blob

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

I am incredibly jealous of women doing those like "tik tok" dances with all the fancy footwork. I wish I was cute, skilled, and having a good time :sicko-wistful: I keep watching this same video and it's just mesmerizing. I want to be her.

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

Good to know I can still draw near perfect eyeliner wings after not doing it for weeks. That always makes me feel good

[–] AutomatedPossum@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

when you earn the title of "best wingwoman in the world" for hooking your friend up with what might legitimately be the hottest trans polycule in the state and can't write an appropriate brag post about the entire saga because it would both be too horny and would run the risk of doxxing some or all of us trans-sad

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

prescription was filled. literally the only thing i have to do now is go to the pharmacy to pick it up tomorrow hyperflush

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I should actually do something to feel better instead of wallowing and stewing

Anyone got any fem haircut suggestions? Besides bangs, I don't think I'd look good with bangs

I've been growing my hair out for like 3 years now so it is long but messy and unstyled

Also anyone know of as way to cut down on frizz?

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

always hate this sterotype that trans girls always want to be a barbie doll! i don't! i always thought of myself as more of a polly pocket type of girl

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I don't know who it is that is always talking about using an IPL for hair but I wanna say that it really works. I've been using one on my legs, on your recommendation, for the last month or so and yeah there is a serious decline in regrowth. So thanks for the recommendation whoever you are. cat-trans

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

the mega's kind zoomin this week huh

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

I see the beautiful nonbinary goth lesbian. I say, she can fix me!

t4t

[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was also at my hairdresser today, and she actually complimented my haircare. Considering the state it was in when I first visited (very bad, I was completly lost), it's something I am very happy about. I love going there, because it is very relaxing, and I can chat about haircare, and learn new things each time.

[–] nathanfieldertulpa@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ventingi love getting deadnamed without a correction/apology by someone i've been out to for 4 months :))))


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[–] BioWarfarePosadist@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

So I'm out at work, but still not out to my family. Anyone else do this?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

I did for a couple years

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ah fuck, it's lesbian visibility week? they know, they can see me hyperflush

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

oh god oh fuck i'll probably be on estrogen in 24 hours holy fuck

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (6 children)

sadness i don't feel like a girl

blob-no-thoughts i will one day though

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I didn't think I'd be interested in dating for at least a couple of years after starting transitioning since I was so uncomfortable with my body.

But now I actucally like my face and most of my body quite a bit, and I'd kinda like to try some stuff now that I can actually be myself in a relationship. On the other hand, there's still parts of my body, like my upper chest, I get pretty dyshoric about so maybe it's better to wait until I'm more comfortable. Idk, it's a confusing feeling, I want to experience things but another part of me wants to hold back at the same time.

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[–] good_girl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

Saw myself in our full length mirror last night after showering and I didn't totally hate what I saw.

Defo inspiration to start exercising.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

News from the internet frontline: in the most active of the new Sapphic Book discords I joined, one of the regulars posted this meme:

Which mood, and also I seem to be in better company than I was in the lib cracker discord, cause it got a lotta good reacts :)

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