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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (25 children)

met up with some other trans people today at the local park that was nice. even kind of flirted with one after she said she thought she could pick me up (she could)

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (8 children)

It's fucked up my gf has a stuffed dog plushie she cuddles with in my stead.
Practically cheating tbh. madeline-bruh

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's now illegal to be gay again.

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Going back to a family gathering in august. Going between cancelling, boymoding, or saying fuck it and wearing what I want. Only thing is that it's gonna be extremely uncomfortable no matter what.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)

ok for the people that have pressed the button to become my wife, you may or may not get a random notification to fight a super villain after I scream "WIVES ASSEMBLE"... just letting you know

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[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (6 children)

complaining about society's transphobiaI will literally never forgive society for making me feel like I'm a pervert.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago

I'm only a strong, independent woman by circumstance. I'm actually a very weak, dependent woman whose been through too much bullshit and has no one to depend on

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago

I may not be first but I am on time.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (20 children)

Sometimes I'll look down while sitting in my chair and think my body is girl-shaped. crush

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[–] Zrc@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

shout-out to postal workers for delivering my E, i fuck with that heavy

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm extremely annoyed with myself today. I went out to take care of a couple errands with my puppy wife this afternoon and I forgot my damned masks at home. I usually leave them in the car, but circumstances had them in the house for today. Anyways, it was a long drive out and we were only going to be there for a few minutes, so I went and did my thing anyways unfortunately. Hope that I didn't catch anything since I know COVID numbers are up right now.

The one thing about that occurrence that does make me happy is that I was gendered correctly even without a mask. I suppose the HRT is truly redistributing the fat in my face and confirming what I thought I saw in my progress pics. I'm so happy right now bridget-vibe

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I’ve got to stop preemptively assuming that my fatigue issues are going away when I’ve just been way less active lol. Today I weeded the garden and then crashed for the whole day.

[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I saw a girl in the mirror transshork-happy

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[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (15 children)

I fucking inhaled "Sisters of Dorley" what an amazing piece of trans fiction about the healing power of forcefem(as a solution to toxic masculinty). Not in a erotic way, it's a very non-horny story.

It is a really beautiful work about feminity, being trans, found family and what it means to grow and change as a person.

But no joke, it is actually really good, and in fact so good that it gave me a bunch of motivation to progress with my own transition, because being women and being trans and transitioning brings the characters so much happiness. It is just so uplifting to read.

I read it all on sunday and today, I almost forgot to eat and drink on sunday, because I simply couldn't stop reading.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago (8 children)

went to a christian coming of age party yesterday, had fun being very trans and girly lea-blush

now there's going to be another one in 4 weeks, and im going to go as full on goth, with my 10cm tall platforms and disdainful look permanently applied sicko-lea

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

down with cis

spoilerdown with cis

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

You folks are wild. I can't keep up with the mega anymore. We're also like 80 comments behind the news mega. wtf

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I know I changed my pronouns before (and then changed them back) but this time I want it to be for real. I'm a woman damn it.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Okay so now that we've reached 1000 comments, the admins have to give over control of the site to the Totalitarian Trans Dictatorship right? Cishets in danger??

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Went out shopping with my sister today so I could thrift some femme clothes (I found a really nice jean jacket and women's jeans with s p a c e!) and we went to where her boyfriend works. Was talking to her after and she was like "yeah he had a feeling you weren't cis" (I rarely see this guy). I swear everybody except for my own family somehow knew that I was probably trans trans-hydra, literally none of my friends were surprised.

AGHH ALMOST FORGOT TO MENTION THE FLUFFY SLIPPERS

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I finally got to watch I saw the tv glow - I knew I had wanted to watch it and every trans person with good taste in movies (including here) said to watch it. I did like it, but I wish I had been warned that

spoiler for the tone of the movie and heavy stuff (I'll say tone was not happy cause I wished someone had told me)It's a downer and Isabel/Owen doesn't figure out that her life is a lie, even though this life that was supposedly rooted in logic includes Owen being able to support himself from... restocking balls in a ball pit??? Or that his manager never aged a day in 30 years??

I was able to trans my gender in our irl Midnight Realm so for me, I couldn't really relate as much to the inability to take that leap - it was just when I had cracked my egg, I only had one direction - no choice to go back to boy mode; because it was transition or suicide, for me. I mean, I'm certainly sympathetic. I can understand it as a survival method. I just can't relate on a personal level, that's all I'm saying.

In a TV show like The Pink Opaque, Isabel would have escaped on her own right at the last minute in a double episode length season premiere. So I imagine the reason it ended on that cliffhanger is that we didn't get to see her finally claw her wat out.

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[–] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

ohh i'm having a nice one sitting here at the park in makeup and pretty clothes watching my children play and actually living the dream.

I expected folks to treat me weird but so far every time I have gone out full femme (3) everyone seems super extra nice to me instead so that's nice. I'm sure i'll eventually get some static cuz I don't remotely pass but I can handle it if it happens i'm tough 💪💃

Friday is the estrogen appointment. Hyyypppeeddd.

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[–] sneak100@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

sending love to all my trans pals

[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Today's an awesome day. Today marks 3 months since my bottom surgery and the official end of my recovery. Still a little bit of issues here and there, but nothing serious enough for me to not be able to return to normal, daily activity. So stoked to getting back to working out and getting back to working my ass and hips. Hopefully I can drop a couple pounds and make my hips BEEG just in time for the furry convention I'll be able to go to here in a bit. Though I am still sad I couldn't make it to Anthrocon again this year :< (been going every year since 2011, missed this year and last year due to mine and puppy wife's bottom surgeries)

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (7 children)

two trans girls vs all of glados test chambers

glados didn't stand a chance

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[–] CloudyConvent@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

fucking new york twinks with their bangs, cigarettes and sleazy music - I was supposed to be a lesbian leaning bi disaster

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I look forward to the day I can throw out my safety razor.

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[–] Ecohex@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

see the cool thing about having the trans mega be as big as it is now is that the number of threads i want to spend time in on this site has literally doubled

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Weird/funny thing about transitioning: You know how some people like wearing masks cause it hides their face, letting them pass better? Well HRT has been very good to my face. So ironically, wearing masks makes me more likely to be misgendered. wtf

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (14 children)

had a dentist appointment today and at the last moment i just said "naw" and stayed home because i couldn't deal with the possibility of them looking at my chart and saying "estradiol and spironolactone?". i don't even know if they have access to a chart like that but fuck it, i can't deal with that shit

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (14 children)

I can't express to you all how excited I am to be able to be cute.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I have confirmation my sister's wedding will be in February.
I have so much time, thank God. niko-tear-wipe

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They should make HRT cigarettes

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Is a very rare day where I am not going out full goth. Got a bunch of cute old clothes from a trans man, and wearing them out is very fun.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago

I have such bad body image issues I don’t think I’ll ever be able to even entertain the idea that I can look okay until I’m like a twig. madeline-stare

[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago (6 children)

t4t is the dream tbh

t4t communism ftw

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