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[–] natecox@programming.dev 179 points 1 week ago (16 children)

Yeah it’s way worse than when we used a Rolodex to remember phone numbers, kept a map book in the dash, and took 20 minutes to transfer birthdays from last years calendar to this years.

I am about as anti-AI as one can get, but this is a bit silly.

[–] jpablo68 97 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Every newspaper there is also chock full of ads.

Don’t know why people think it’s a new thing. They were pretty intrusive for the time as well.

“Continued on page 9” is code for “people paid a lot of money for the ads on page 8”

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

No don't you dare stop the circlejerk! /s

But seriously phone numbers were broken into chunks of three to four digits to even make them something we could remember. Is it so terrible my brain has more space to remember other things instead of strings of numbers?

[–] 667@lemmy.radio 11 points 1 week ago (14 children)

There are valid arguments for knowing how to use a paper map. We’re fortunate that GPS was opened up to the world, and we’ve flourished for it, but one very bad solar storm and it’s possible we’ll be back to paper for regional and farther navigation.

[–] NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

And the vast majority of people will have no problem using a road Atlas... Once they find out it exists. It won't be the optimal route but getting from one cross street to another is very intuitive if you ever looked at the screen in Google maps.

Navigating a countryside or understanding topological maps is a lost cause but even back in the 80s like two weirdos knew how to do that.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Topo maps are still very popular in the outdoors communities even today.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] Salvo@aussie.zone 5 points 1 week ago

They were also semi structured. All my school-friends started with the same first area code and first chunk. I just had to know where they lived and remember the last 4 digits.

Mobile Phone numbers were randomly generated, and unless a social group deliberately got sequential numbers because we all got our phones at the same time, there would be no way to associate numbers.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

I mean, if no one has a cell phone almost everyone in your daily life only required 4 digits to remember. The first 6 numbers was the same for the whole town.

"Area codes" were a big deal, even Ludacris made a song about being so famous, he knew women from multiple geographic locations.

Maps were there in case of emergencies, nowadays people gps to the same office they've been driving to for a decade. But that's more about random traffic conditions.

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[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 51 points 1 week ago (2 children)

https://www.azquotes.com/quote/1446354

The invention of writing will produce forgetfulness in the minds of those who learn to use it, because they will not practice their memory. Their trust in writing, produced by external characters which are no part of themselves, will discourage the use of their own memory within them. You have invented an elixir not of memory, but of reminding; and you offer your pupils the appearance of wisdom, not true wisdom.

Socrates

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

This is one thing I tell people about math. Like, yes, we have amazing calculators in our pockets everywhere we go, and in the real world we will likely never need to do more complex math than, like, seventh grade algebra, and even that would be a rarity.

But that brain-crushing, painful learning of the process of math and how to compute is like power-lifting for your brain.

If you can power through that and train your brain to learn something as abstrusely taught as modern mathematics, then that will make all of the other learning things that you have to do in your life 100 times easier.

[–] makeshiftreaper@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

As someone with a math degree it frustrates me that people always say "but when will I use this in the real world?" Whether or not you need that math in the real world the real value in learning math is learning how to approach problems in an organized, specific, and detail oriented process. The process of learning formal logic and following through to the end is a very important skill for people to have. Instead, it's all about "how do I get to the answer?" There's a reason why 75% of your score in higher level math is your work and not your answer. The work is what matters

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Another important thing is knowing when to use maths. I've been doing some statistical analysis for a personal project lately and it struck me that without those tedious lessons I'd have no idea this was even possible, never mind how to do it.

[–] Yezzey@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm not gonna argue with Socrates :)

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Plato's the one you don't wanna argue with. Dude was an ex-wrestler.

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[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 38 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I memorize important numbers

I don't use GPS after the first time going to a place and remember my routes

Facebook? what... ? people actually use that?

I won't use AI..my information stays with me, in my mind when I need it. I can't rely on others, I won't rely on computers to be there when I need it and that most certainly applies to ai

[–] Yezzey@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

You are old school. As am I

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm exactly like that, and 20 y/o. Though my body feels like 80.

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[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm probably older than both of you. I use gps constantly even when I know the route. It's safer to focus on the road than think about the route.

People didn't use to memorize numbers. They used little private address books that you wrote your numbers in. Moving that text to a computer screen changed nothing for the majority of people.

I don't use Facebook but I didn't use Myspace either.

I don't use AI but I have nothing against it. I used it once to write some code in VBscript which is a language that would be a complete waste of time to learn. It saved dozens of hours.

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[–] RicoRodriguez42@lemmy.world 29 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

With phone books, we don't memorize phone numbers any more, we rely on drawn maps to tell us where to go and calendars reminds us of birthdays. What else will we stop remembering once ~~AI~~ paper remembers everything for us?

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[–] Brutticus@midwest.social 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Like, people used rely Rolodex's and calendars to remember phone numbers and birthdays, respectively. In other words, we used to write things down. When I left Facebook, I did literally go through their calendar and write down all my friends birthdays.

Navigation is a skill you have to learn. When I was an EMT, my FTO drilled the basics in to me. I can find my way to a city Ive never been, but I still use a GPS to find a specific place off the major cross streets. People used to give more advice with the destination, now they just say, "oh, come to this XXXX address place" because they assume youll be using a GPS, and the skill to describe "its off of this road" is both becoming lost, and a generational disconnect.

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[–] ArchmageAzor@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (3 children)

With the movie, people will forget how to read.

With the printing press, people will forget how to write.

With the book, people will forget how to remember.

With writing, people will forget how to talk.

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[–] 4am@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

“AI” as in the common LLMs that most people think of doesn’t remember anything new for us and doesn’t invent anything new.

The best it can offer is a mathematical chance to make an inference that we might not have already, based on whatever it was trained on. It’s a dice roll on insight, and the house always wins.

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[–] LettyWhiterock@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 10 points 1 week ago

I remember the new emergency number. It's 01189998819991197253

[–] SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 9 points 1 week ago (8 children)
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[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I know about 4 phone numbers by memory:

  1. My childhood home phone
  2. My childhood best friend’s home phone
  3. My cell phone
  4. My ex-wife’s cell phone

Two of those numbers no longer work, so if I ever go to jail there is only one person I can call. 😬

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 week ago

I know the IT Crowd emergency services phone number because it had a jingle.

0118 999 88199 9119 725....... 3

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[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 7 points 1 week ago

I never memorized those. We had a of the most common phone numbers on the wall next to the phone. Birthdays I didn't need to remember either because the date was in the invitation card.

Navigation is something I'm way worse than my dad for example, I'll give you that. I'll rely on GPS even when I know how to get to my destination because I always tend to drive the same routes and sometimes there is a much shorter one that I didn't even think of.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Good idea to recognize, but bad examples.

The issue isn't even using devices to replace cognitive functions. That's anprim shit, I'm not gonna do 5 digit numbers on my head, imma use a calculator, especially if it's something important or there are stakes to getting it wrong.

The issue more than anything is agency.

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[–] vala@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

LLMc can't remember anything. It's all an illusion based on systems that have existed for decades.

[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why we should kill each other

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[–] shai_hulud@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Who's we?

I still remember the fucking IP address of the main local (member of a three way cluster) data server for a bank that folded over 15 years ago.

2102231063 (used to be area code 512) was the back/kitchen phone of the firehouse my dad worked at. He retired in '93 and died in 2011.

And I almost never need directions to a place I've been once.

I don't forget faces but fuck do I forget names even when I repeat them or use other memory techniques.

I might be neurologically a little divergent, but I don't know, and make no assumptions.

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[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

We didn't stop remembering phone numbers because our phones remembers them for us, we stopped remembering numbers because we stopped dialing them, back then there was this joke about not knowing your own number, why should I know my own number? I never call myself, and when I do I always get a busy signal.
We don't even get to see the numbers, we have to make an extra effort to memorise numbers when we used to just know them after dialing them every day.

With GPS is something similar, we have trouble remembering how to get from point A to point B because GPS substituted landmarks. We turn right when the GPS says so, so we stopped looking for the gas station, the bus stop or the road sign. Again, we need to make an extra effort to pay attention to our surroundings to know when to turn right next time we come without a GPS when before that was just how you learned to get to places.
At least for me this is very obvious in video games, every time I deactivate the minimap I don't know how to get anywhere and I start to notice how rich some of the environments are when I stop having one eye fixed in the corner following the yellow line.

So with AI I don't know, probably won't be what it does for us but what we stop doing because of that.

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[–] snooggums@piefed.world 6 points 1 week ago

Stored phone numbers and GPS sre reliable though. I never remembered most numbers or birthdays anyway due to ADHD, so those being easily accessible was a benefit.

GPS directions also include construction and more accurate time estimates. I never learned alternate routes because remembering the ones I knew was enough effort and I still learn those. Going to new cities is way easier now!

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago

I remember a few people's phone numbers in case I need to ring them on someone else's phone.

Calendars existed before computers.

[–] Zephorah@discuss.online 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That’s entirely up to you. Do you not have phone numbers for your main people memorized? I also have my library card memorized. This level of memory work isn’t rocket scientist level functioning, it’s a choice.

Do you really want to be in a hospital, after a car accident, with no phone (destroyed/lost in crash), and have no idea how to call your parent, spouse, or child? This occurs more often than you’d think.

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[–] JcbAzPx@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Okay, but its also much rarer to get lost and stranded with no way to get help anymore. You really have to go out of your way to be completely isolated.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 week ago

I memorized my friend's phone number. It's because she's a lawyer, and that seems like a good number to have memorized.

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