Spirograph, Crystal growing kit, search for stem toys for 6 year olds, ask her parents what she's into.
I've been doing stem toys for my niece for a few years and she always loves them. She just turned 9 in August.
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If she likes drawing a big set of decent-ish markers could go a long way.
Something like that.
https://www.smartgames.eu/uk/one-player-games/iq-gears
My boys love this game.
Loads of replay value.
Awesome to also have it to teach others how to play. If she has that teaching spirit, this game is great.
Maybe not in the "smart mind challenging" category but there are plenty of craft kits for your budget: paint canvases by numbers, make your own accessories with clay, bead jewelry, basic engineering kits (build your own robot types), dig your own fossil kits, build-this-or-that-with-LEDlights, gardening kits for kids, etc.
My point is to expand your horizon a bit, it's perfectly fine that you want to cater to her intelligence and not just go for something girly in a cliche sense. But she can also enjoy crafting stuff.
Sudoku book, maybe? If the likes making things, origami paper and an insteuction book? OH, I remember as a kid this toy that was short plastic sticks with magnets at the end and ball bearings ao you would make structures and stuff with em, fun to play with and suits the vibe you're looking for I think.
ant farm
Board games. Catan junior, Loopin Chewie, Robot turtles, Tsuro, Abracada...What?, camel up.
Regular price
Catan Jr, didn't know that existed I'll have to look into what games are around. I know her Dad taught our parents how to play Settlers of Catan a number of years ago before she was born, so that's something that she may have parents/grandparents to play with. She has a brother that is 2 years younger, so maybe they'll be able to play that together soon enough.
Ticket to Ride: First Journey and Qwirkle are also good choices for that age range. Qwirkle is great because it's simple but fun for all ages. My kids loved it when they were young and still play it frequently at 16 and 25.
Charades for kids. It uses her creativity.
At about that age, I enjoyed putting together dominos runs and knocking them down. I also liked wooden building blocks. Nowadays they have building made out of dense foam which probably hurt less when your baby brother knocks your tower onto your head.
Modeling clay and good quality paints.
Artistic, technical, no real "rules", and a good amount of skill building.
She needs a sword. It’s educational.
Get a crystal growing kit and grow colourful crystals with her. It's gonna take multiple days and is a great entry to stem-topics.
There are plenty of brain teaser type toys. Maybe something like Rush Hour or Snap Circuits
Books are always good too. When I was her age I was really into the Magic Treehouse series
My 6 year old son absolutely loves the Snap Circuits kits. We've also started teaching him collectable card games (Pokémon, Yu Gi Oh , etc) which challenge his reading and strategy skills. Plus great quality time activity. There are tons of Stem kits out there for less than $40.
Sent me back mentioning those snap circuits lol. Have her build the simple AM radio and watch her mind be blown OP, you won't be disappointed
K'NEX. I used to build all kinds of cool stuff out of those when I was a kid.
I once bought my niece a marble run. I got some shit for it, because I guess some people just don't get it? But she loved it, and my 6-year-old daughter now loves marble runs too.
My daughter also collects rocks, so a rock tumbler was a big one for her.
Another gift for a niece I got shit for was a drum. She loved it. She was so excited that it was a real instrument. My brother always said he'd get me back, but my daughter got a full-ass drum kit for Christmas, and I think it's great.
Oh, and make your own slime kits are huge right now. It's science-y, DIY, and kids love slime.
I think the problem with the marble run is the constant "rrrrrrr tick-tick rrrrr tick rrrr", but aside from the noise it's a great toy and a core component of any child's toy box. It's also the start of many Rube Goldberg machines running through your living room.
I had a marble run at about 6. It was awesome.
I once bought my niece a marble run. I got some shit for it
By her parents? Either way, who the hell criticizes a gift to someone else? Especially if the recipient ends up loving it!?
It was good natured. I wasn't offended.
I just think it's funny how some people are all about marble runs and some people just don't get it. No in between. Personally I'm all about marble runs.
Ask your sibling if it would be ok, to take her out to a museum or something similar.
Or aks them what she currently is into and try and get her something you know she'd love.
Would be lovely, unfortunately I live a few states away, so I can't don't that this time. I appreciate the thought though
I'd say experiences is still a good answer, its what we ask for when it comes to the kids. They have tons of toys already, they don't need more, and I'm too particular about tech for my.kids for anyone to buy them tech (without it just getting returned).
We go to animal preserves, science centers, art museums, renaissance fairs, etc. Tickets only for the kids, its more like "pick an event/activity" than anything else I guess.
Sometimes we wait for family to visit so they can go too, sometimes we just take lots of pictures.
Aside from that....
- Rock tumblers are great, but loud, so talk with parents first.
- There are some great kits out there to learn to sew.
- There are electronics kits for kids that basically snap together in different arrangements for different circuits
- Marble kits (where you build different layouts) can be fun
- Terrariums with guides are always a good option IMO
- Magnet blocks are also really fun and can be reused a bunch
I was about that age when I was gifted a microscope. No idea if you can still find them that cheap, though
In my area's thrift stores, $500 microscopes are available for $10, no joke. People buy them for their kids, kids never use them, into the box and off to the donation center!
Microscopes are definitely available in OP's price range.
I also got a microscope around this age - now I'm an environmental scientist
Another good one would be an easier STEMmy puzzle. I had one that was a bunch of shapes that had to fit together into its small case. Kinda of Tetris like.
Yes, also had a microscope at around that age, even with some sample plates that you could look at, such as a squeezed fly.
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There are also kits for learning about electricity for kids of that age. For making a light switch or making a doorbell buzzer and simple things like that.
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Is she too young for an Arduino starter kit?
https://store-usa.arduino.cc/products/arduino-starter-kit-multi-language
Edit: the great thing about these is that you can eventually add a raspberry pi to the mix for even more functionality and learning fun!
My niblings have liked the Kiwico and other sciencey kits I've sent them
I have a couple smart nieces. One of them did want LEGO — she wanted a whole LEGO-themed party. I was the only one who bought her an actual LEGO set, not one of the ones aimed specifically at girls (LEGO and Friends, IIRC). Yeah, guess whose she wanted to actually build — and guess who she recruited for help doing it, while all the other sets sat in boxes (dunno if they were ever opened).
Beyond that, I stuck to the "edutainment" aisle. Science-y stuff. Books are another good option, if you can find a fantasy series with light romance (but nothing erotic, obviously). That's more for older girls though, a six-year-old probably can't read. That being said, audiobooks are a thing, and if they're a tablet kid, an Audible/similar gift code might not be a bad idea. They can do a lot worse for themselves with a tablet than having someone read to them.
Also, crafting stuff. Crochet kit, beads, anything that lets her "make" something.
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If you want diy that’s not Lego for a 6 yo, I’d go with magnetites. The original brand is best but the knock off brands are good too. Not all brands are compatible, though, so if you plan to get a recurring gift and add to it over time, I’d stick with the magnetile brand.
My 8yo boy loved them at that age. However, they don’t have the staying power of Lego. Why not Lego?
My brother has done quite well for himself, and married a lawyer and what not on top of it, so I know he's already got a game room with that really nice millennium falcon and such next to his game consoles. I just kind of figured any Legos she would have wanted that were on the cheaper side they would have bought her. So I figured more obscure gifts or something different would end up being something she already has.
Lego update their range every few months. If you know they like Lego and she does, I'd pick one and ask if they have it.
I'm sure any gift you out this much thought into will be perfect. From my kids point of view, they get excited about presents whether they end up playing with it or not. What I've found works for spenifn time together is zoom videos with books that you can read to them while they read too. So you both have a copy of the same book.
At 6 they will be learning to read, presumably, so you can also listen to them read to you. All of the Julia donaldson books are great. However, I'd still get a toy present. This is more a thought for developing a relationship while apart, seperate to the birthday. You can even just pick up a copy of their favourite book near you and then only one copy needed. I love overseas from my family and at that age they are not able to hold a conversation on zoom for long as their attention span is low. Having the book brings a focus.
I've had friends bake together over zoom and also build the Lego together over zoom, so if you have the time that would work also.
Kids don't differentiate between expensive and smaller sets of Lego at that age. The bigger sets are normally more advanced, so I wouldn't stress about the size or cost.
I recently had my kids friends for sleep over. We got some Lego that day as a reward for something else. It was about Aussie $30, so maybe 25 USA dollars, and was 3 Harry Potter characters. They each were entertained for about an hour making them. Then an hour playing and they could each bring one home. There were 3 characters to build. They got more fun out of that each and collectively than a 100 dollar set.
Why not Lego?
Probably cost, Lego's really expensive for what you get, sadly.
Buy em from AliExpress
I disagree. Lego has a replayability and endurance that makes it great value in my opinion. For that price point, there are lots of Lego creator 3-in-1 kits that have a variety of instructions with the same bricks.
Cheaper brands and toys don't have the same quality, longevity and compatibility.
Do you know what she likes? I think a lot of “cool” ideas are presented here, however, remember she is still 6, and kids that age learn a lot through unstructured play.
Toys that have multiple ways to play with them, such as craft beading kits and doll houses are stimulating to the brain in more ways, and often preferred by children to circuit building kits, for example. The former is well within your price range, if she is crafty.
Unfortunately I've only seen her a couple times because the distance and my time/money. I know she likes animals, they go to beach and waterparks. She likes Halloween, even when she was 3 she was trying to make friends with the giant blow up scary things. She's got a 2 wheeled scooter she likes. Baking, crafts. Swings, pools.. they are always going on trips it seems. (Thankfully my brother has a family shared album so I've seen 1000s of pictures of her growing up and always doing things). They are I suppose upper middle class, and I'm not lol. So it's one of those trying to find something that they wouldn't have off hand bought her when they saw it, and I know my brother likes Legos, so I assume she has any cheaper set she would have liked.
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