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Soon after I joined Lemmy a few years ago, I searched for communities based on my interests and subscribed to the ones with the highest numbers of users to ensure they are active. Sometimes I joined multiple, but then saw that some people post the same thing to more than one, cluttering my feed, so I left the smaller ones.

It's only after my community ban from !games@hexbear.net for disagreeing about Ukraine that I was told about MeanwhileOnGrad, learning exactly what "the tankie triad" means and why big Lemmy instances have defederated from those. Lemmy.ml, where the ML probably stands for Marxist-Leninist, seems to have been defederated by fewer, possibly because it's run by the creator of Lemmy, Dessalines. Nevertheless, there is evidence of Dessalines holding the same authoritarian communist views as the rest.

Recently, there were two posts on !privacy@lemmy.ml about Signal, but then in both cases, admin davel (who is known on MoG for seeing CIA's hand in running Ukraine, among other things) and Dessalines linked (1, 2, 3) the same article by Dessalines, which not only argues Signal could be a CIA honeypot (as if it matters when proper e2ee is used), but also manages to shoehorn China even into that, claiming its government "prefers autonomy". This sort of portrayal of totalitarianism as sovereignty is the reason I unsubscribed from the community. As it has been said by others, ML is not a neutral instance but a means of pushing authoritarian views onto unsuspecting users.

Edit: Made the post title clearer.

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[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 97 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Your life on the fediverse improves significantly if you just block the entire lemmy.ml and hexbear.net instances.

[–] sparky@lemmy.federate.cc 3 points 21 hours ago

My experience improved immensely when we defederated Hexbear. It’s like a Lemmy cheat code to delete 80% of the trolls.

[–] Rose@lemmy.zip 33 points 1 day ago (23 children)

Getting closer and closer to that! The reason I made this post to begin with is to do a PSA, because it took me months of being subscribed to games on Hexbear to notice it's not a leftist community as it presents itself, but authoritarian communist. So I can't be certain all of their users are in the know, but is it worth keeping the instances unblocked if the bad outweighs the possibility of good?

[–] jimmy90@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

no you're not missing out on anything

these servers were some of the first which is why they appear to have a lot of communities

all the communities have moved on or been replaced on other servers so these servers are now a tiny fraction (faction? hoho) of the fediverse, exactly for the reason you experienced

[–] prettybunnys@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Much of the “left” communities here veer towards the auth right with a light “left rebranding”

[–] dickalan@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

you can kick rocks with your horseshoe theory

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[–] Ghostie@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

So funny story, I initially joined Lemmy on the voyager app. By default they had hexbear.net blocked. I removed it because I didn’t know what that was or why it was there. Well I now know the preemptive favor they were doing for me and added them back to the block list. Thinking about adding ML to it too.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 20 hours ago

hexbear sounded like its "a cute" instance name which would make look like a pleasant place, its a bait and switch.

[–] Rose@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I believe that's from .zip rather than Voyager. When I joined, there were no blocks, but one or more of the triad were later added as a soft block via default user settings, as opposed to defederation.

[–] Ghostie@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

I think you might be right. I think .zip was the initial instance when I joined via that app. Either way, I now know why they did it.

[–] MissesAutumnRains@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I hear a lot of negative talk about those instances, but rarely any specifics. What's the deal with them?

[–] Gigasser@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Supposedly a lot of the first people on lemmy were leftists and or tankies. My thing is though is that advocating for defederation weakens Lemmy, less communities to interact with, less content or posts to engage with, less people to interact with which cause echo chambers and hugboxes. Nor would I agree with defederating people just because they have views that I don't like or vehemently disagree with. As bad as some tankies are, they sometimes do make a few good points here and there.

[–] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 day ago

They are fake leftists working for fascists, and they will troll you if you argue with them, following you around on alt accounts with non tankie instances.

[–] Sophocles 34 points 1 day ago (3 children)

In my own experience, it's less that they spew out politics and more that they are just so defensive and argumentative. A lot of good lemmy communities are based on discussion and sharing cool stuff, while the denizens of those instances and the like are more online to debate, nitpick, and criticize. Like there could be a post of a dog picture and their comment would be critisizing the owner or introducing some political argument that is distantly related. Like bro, just enjoy the dog picture

[–] Rose@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I think the behavior surrounding my games@hexbear ban is also indicative not just of their politics but also of their behavior in general. Its moderator reacting to my report of Holodomor denial by publicly saying the comment has been reported by me is highly unethical. Then following my post about the situation (linked in the OP), one of their users reposted that to Hexbear and there were people tagging me as they threw insults at me, which amounts to harassment, considering I've never left a comment in that thread. There were admins in the thread as well, but they only piled on despite their rules prohibiting harassment and insults.

Edit: Here's a link to some specific examples.

Edit 2: They're now brigading this thread and tagging me again from here.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Hey I'm in there! hexbear was my first block. Just do it if you enjoy not having your language policed or just general arguing. I don't think I'm missing anything.

[–] Rose@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago

You're in there!

[–] MissesAutumnRains@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Huh, okay. I guess I'll avoid going over that way. I'm hesitant to outright mute anything that I don't immediately have a huge issue with in case it becomes a source I learn of something through.

[–] Hamartia@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Go visit it yourself.

These folks are specifically trying to stir shit. [It's like walking into an Indian reservation and yelling that we speak English here, that this is a white country and if you don't like it you should go home. Then they try to get the reservation closed due to the roughing up and expulsion they received] The usual form this takes is repeating long debunked anti-communist propaganda, that a majority of people in the western media orbit have swallowed whole, so the resulting mod action seems disproportionate.

If you join there yourself you will find, like most instances, respectful conversations and a healthy community. And like anywhere else you will find a spectrum of personalities and a handful of kooks.

[–] Rose@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago

Let's stick to the real world, not weird analogies. By default, Lemmy users are presented with an All feed, which includes communities from all instances (except those defederated). When you see one called "games" (at hexbear, whatever that means) and then maybe see its trans flag banner, what's the reasonable expectation? Discussions about games with people who seem to recognize the value of minority groups and viewpoints, right? And then it turns out those people hijack discussions about gaming to praise or defend totalitarian states who oppress minorities; then they ban, insult and harass you if you disagree. Likewise, what does the notion of China preferring autonomy have to do with Signal in the context of privacy? No reasonable person comes to a privacy community expecting to see praise for China.

[–] yesterday@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This. I've seen a lot of obnoxious and/or argumentative comments from them, but one that stuck with me was when my first Lemmy instance had to close when Trump was inaugurated due to safety fears.

The first comment to the announcement post was a hexbear user saying something like "Yeah this is why capitalism doesn't work, America sucks and it needs to go down" -- which I do not disagree with, but the post was the admin sharing genuine fears and talking about the logistics of having to move to another state. The user didn't even say a "I'm sorry you have to close your instance because of this...", just straight up getting into politics when it wasn't the main point of the post.

(I will always miss you, possumpat.io; I hope the admin is safe and thriving!)

[–] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago

You touch on the problem with talking with them. You can agree on the problem, get into what can we do about it, they are no, you can't do anything except violently overthrow your government. Also fuck you and I hope you die, their attitude towards us. Some of them.

Yet if they talked that same talk in those worker paradises of China and Russia they would be committed to re-education camps and gulags.

[–] null@lemmy.org 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Just a dog!? Despite making up only 13% of the dog population, pitbulls--

[–] Eldritch@piefed.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hypocrisy largely. Heavy micro management and over moderation by admins broadly. Thankfully most are self aware enough outside hexbear to not leave their echo chamber. There are a few sub's documenting it.

Should discussion touch on certain trigger topics, and should your view deviate from dogma. You will often find yourself banned, either temporarily or permanently, without much discussion. Do you think imperialism and invasion of another country is wrong? Such as the United States current invasion of Iran or past invasions of Afghanistan? Well, if you happen to feel the same way about the Soviet Union's invasion of Afghanistan or modern day Russia's invasion of Ukraine. You would be classified as a mush-brained, imperialist turbo-lib.

Do you think genocide and cultural erasure such as what the United States and Canada did to First Nations people is wrong? Don't make a mistake of applying that unbiased to the plight of cultural minorities in China. Tibet, Hong Kong, and the Uhygers, all of course are glad to sacrifice their cultural and ethnic heritage. Under the penalty of imprisonment or death for glorious left unity with the party and President Xi. Any discussion of these groups dissatisfaction with it is CIA propaganda. And not well tolerated.

If you skirt around in only the most niche of communities with hyper-focused specific topics. Who have almost no capability ever touching or involving current events. You might avoid it. Otherwise you will run afoul of it at some point as many have.

[–] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Let's not forget about the native siberians, the russians sabered everything on their way east.

[–] Eldritch@piefed.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Or the polish. When it comes to giant unwieldy nations, preserving power becomes more important than preserving large segments of population. Regardless of which economic system they larping as.

[–] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When I was reading about Amanita muscaria, a mushroom I use occasionally, it talked about how the Russians to destroy the Siberian culture would take the shamans of the Native Siberians into helicopters and throw them out.

[–] Eldritch@piefed.world 6 points 1 day ago

Aaaah one of those handy not so fun facts. I 100% believe that had the immigrant settlers in the 19the century had helicopters and not covered wagons. They would have done similar to my ancestors.

They are tankie instances, where they think and then push narratives such as China is the greatest country in the world and does no wrong and that Ukraine is full of Nazis and Russia is the good guy They love their authoritarianism, but only as long as it's "communist" or generally antagonistic towards anything "western."

Anything that contradicts their narrow worldview is met with hostility, comment removals, bans, etc.

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