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[–] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 31 points 10 months ago (6 children)

CW: transphobia

So my dad's cis but really outspoken about trans rights (and queer rights in general) which has led to him arguing with all sorts of reactionaries in, like, Facebook groups and shit.

His go to arguement has been to demand the transphobes prove he's a man and then poke holes in whatever proof they suggest as they grow increasingly flustered and run out of arguments. After which he'll hit 'em with a line about how all they've got is his word on it and that's all that should matter.

And, well, I've had a hard time of it recently with transphobia so it's been cathartic seeing him just verbally steamroll these dickheads, laughing the entire time.

Shame the extended family are kinda a nightmare about their transphobia (so bad that I'm not going to out myself to them 'till I have, like, at least an entire country between myself and them), 'cos it's nice having supportive parents.

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[–] Azarova@hexbear.net 28 points 10 months ago (5 children)

upbearing the trans mega but not the news mega despite reading both to maintain trans hegemony over the site im-doing-my-part

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 28 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Boymoding for the first time in a while to meet my grandparents, but I lost like 7kg of probably mostly muscle since I used these clothes so I just look like someone who raided her boyfriend's wardrobe.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago

I just look like someone who raided her boyfriend's wardrobe.

goals??? kinda i dunno thonk-trans

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[–] GaveUp@hexbear.net 27 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (9 children)

It's so funny how my main concern sometimes when having somebody stick something inside of meis that my moans stay fem and passable so I don't scare the lesbian off with my deep ass voice 💀


[–] Yor@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

that's so realeven post voice training I worried for a while about what noises I might make in the moment. it felt too awkward to practice moans lol

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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 26 points 10 months ago (5 children)

I may not be a mother, but baby trans treating me like an elder who can give them advice and guidance does make me feel like one. comfy-cool

[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (5 children)

2 years into transition? you're now an elder trans with a gaggle of babies. 5 years? you're a grandmother.

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[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

This, but for training a flock of baby velociraptors i've imprinted on me to eat terf faces.

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[–] Shitbird@hexbear.net 25 points 10 months ago (3 children)

have i me tiond evr iam nonbinry

[–] Shitbird@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago

ths iz sincerr i hapily use all pronouns

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 24 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (9 children)

Got my haircut for the first time since transitioning with a local queer barber. She said my hair was beautiful and gave me tips to take care of my curls. aubrey-happy This is so sweet, as I am a bit uncomfortable with the thin hair around my scalp.

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 24 points 10 months ago (10 children)

One of the good things about Arabic is gendered verbs, idk how to explain it, but I can gender myself easier while monologuing, like "I'm laying in bed" in Arabic is gendered so I'm she-laying on bed (can work too for they pronouns but I don't think it'll work for neo ones), I can gender myself in it and no one can stop me.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 23 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (19 children)

I have an announcement to make: I have stolen my wife's sweatpants and claimed them for myself. They are oversized n comfy n gay. If you are not stealing clothes from/trading clothes with your significant other I recommend it trans-heart

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[–] jwsmrz@hexbear.net 23 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

40 days sober

electrolysis clinic booked to max. ill unionize against myself when I move offices, but for now the boss wants 12 hour days

expanding to a full time office soon, at which point ill have capacity to do multiple days a month pro bono work for a local drop-in centre for LGBTQ folks

training an apprentice, when they're ready we will convert the business to a workers co-op and bring on another apprentice. im raising an army of based communist electrologists.

lets fucking go

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 23 points 10 months ago (3 children)

badeline-rage shutting down the site because the trans megathread was winning the posting wars was not okay

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 23 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I don't know how much more waiting I can stand. madeline-sadeline

Waiting for laser hair removal to be finished.
Waiting for the hormones to work.
Waiting for blood tests to see if the hormones are working.
Waiting to lose weight.
Waiting to be with my girlfriend.

It seems like I've been waiting all my life just to be happy. madeline-scared

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[–] sisatici@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago

I noticed we are using mm/dd/yyyy like a bunch of amerikkkans. Please fix this mistake

[–] Othello@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

i love my trans friends, they make me feel so valid.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Mom has finally reached the level of acceptance that she wants to braid my hair into every neat thing she saw on tiktok recently.

My hair is just too smooth and fine to be easy to manage and this frustrates her to no end. It's kinda sweet though transshork-happy

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

so I went to my sister's 30th birthday party which was nice. got to talking with two of her college friends, both women, one of whom i got along with particularly well and found attractive. then later my sister mentions the two of them are dating.

my god, the envy that rose up in me. not even about the girl in specific, just that they get to be two pretty girls dating. suddenly i felt so trapped in how I am. Have you ever been stuck in a tight space and know struggling won't do any good, and in fact will only make it worse, but there's still the overwhelming urge to scream and thrash like an animal until you're a hot, raging heap? That's what welled up in me. And later, a certainty that things cannot go on as they are for much longer, one way or another

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

I feel this so strongly, genuinely could have written it myself. We'll both be pretty girls dating other pretty girls one day.

[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago (1 children)

making moves for myself and it feels good. i'm in the process of becoming "that bitch"

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

Were talking sexuality tonight looks like

For me, since I was young, I've always gone for the gender different people - tomboy, yes, femboy, yes, enby? Oh fuck yes. That was my only criteria, couldn't date gender normal people. My girlfriend now describes herself as futch and a breaker of binaries, my ex was enby since like 2010. Apparently, gender fuckery is my thing and as far as I remember, it always has been.

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[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Went out in a breezy dress because is hot outside and some kid stared at me from way up the sidewalk and as i pass asks "what kind of freaky shit are you into" and it has seriously withered me. I don't wanna go out femme anymore

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I’m terrified everyone just sees me as a guy, so I just boymode as a slightly feminine guy.
It’s probably a self-fulfilling cycle. madeline-sadeline

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I'm sorry everyone, but I'm gonna be so hot without facial hair, and you're all just gonna have to deal with it

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Wore a skirt today. Skirts are great! It also allowed me to wear a unisex shirt I have that looked too masculine with pants and shorts. I've also gone through and taken out a lot of my older clothes, and I think I'm at a point where I have enough feminine clothing (or at least non-masculine) to wear without falling back on the old clothes. aubrey-happy

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (10 children)

I am better than the trans pixel art platformer about anxiety. The trans pixel art platformer about anxiety cannot beat me, for I have defeated its nefarious crystal heart challenges.

To be real, people talk about how Artorias of the Abyss was too out-of-the-way and hard to find in Dark Souls, and yeah fucking off to the Duke's Archives to get the pendant or whatever was a bit roundabout. But out of the seven crystal hearts you need, maybe two you could find without a guide??? This is like, 1980s CRPG levels of cryptic. I would buy the strategy guide.

Why is nobody mad about this? I am mad about this. I am incensed that the trans pixel art platformer about anxiety forced me to paddle its ass for another six hours before I could continue. madeline-deadpan

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Oh so this is the megathread?

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (4 children)

stupid bsI think I finally decided that I really truly do not wanna touch grass anymore. Sure people are cool, I like them, and it's fun being A Gender™ outside, but I actually cannot handle the stress anymore. Let me stay inside and talk to the queer people inside my computer. Everytime I go outside it's a fucking expedition with required gear and terrible sensory problems and just, eeeehehehhrhgghhghgghh

bocchi-cry

It's fucking stupid because nothing bad even happened today and I'm still exhausted. I give, I don't have the energy to be outside, I'm exhausted and I give up. Do not make me leave my dumb little nest please kitty-cri-potato

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (11 children)

Got laser the other day and now my shitty pencil stash is like pretty dark no matter how much I shave -.-

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago

I look away from the trans mega to play video games with wifey, 100 new comments reisen-dance

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (3 children)

so glad my one year old a/c unit died in the middle of this nightmare heatwave

it is so fun, i am having such a good time

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[–] milk_thief@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (5 children)

I need to start working out, but I feel constantly tired even though I get enough sleep and food.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago (3 children)

"never trust how you feel about your life after 9 pm" but that's the only time i ever bother thinking about my life

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago (8 children)

I wonder what my life would have been like if I actually worked up the courage to come out to that one girl I was friends with in high school? lea-think
She already knew I was kind of a gay little f@g, why didn’t I just bite the bullet?

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Finally playing New Vegas, currently fucking around and dying to bugs

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago (4 children)

My gf sudoku time: 2:59 very-smart

My time doing the same sudoku: 1:18:54 thonk-cri

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[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago (17 children)

a trans woman invited me to help try on clothes but im too fucking nervous to take her up on it

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago

I have been coming to the realization that the only two things I used to like about my body were only because I thought other people would like those things about me. It was never because I liked those things.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago (20 children)

I can’t tell how much of my attraction to men is real and how much of it is rooted in making me feel more feminine by being bigger, taller and more manly than me. madeline-stare

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[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago

when the trans mega gets so big cleaning it up breaks the site like a dprk-soldier

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (4 children)

might fuck around and wear make up today

the journey of too nervous to wear make up out, always wearing it out, too lazy to wear it out, to finally settling on sometimes wearing it out

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago (8 children)

You like being trans because it has shaped who you are as a person

I like being trans because I would hate having a period

We are not the sameYes I know some trans women have periods but I will simply not swole-doge

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[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago (13 children)

my wife keeps texting me "deer anime?" and I don't know what it means. what do I say? is the anime going to deer my gender?

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago (4 children)
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