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Which posts and comments do you either up- or downvote? Which are you not voting on?

Upvote:

  • insightful post or comment I agree with
  • clever jokes or references
  • being open-minded
  • giving helpful advice
  • any post or comment that made me laugh or simile, whether or not it is "good"

  • good gut feeling about someones intention

No-vote:

  • insightful post or comment I disagree with
  • overused jokes
  • useful bots

  • someone angry venting their frustration(s)
  • comments that already exist multiple times in a thread

Downvote:

  • deliberately looking for a "fight" or rage baiting
  • complete disregard to reality
  • false and/or potentially dangerous information
  • spamming bots and/or trolls
  • inciting violence, no matter against whom (people seem to forget this is a straight up crime, sometimes a felony)

  • propaganda and political or religious extremism
  • know all, better than everyone attitude
  • highly questionable anime content (especially sexualizing characters that look like children)
  • obvious, malicious manipulation
  • AI generated content ( mentioned first by cloudless@piefed.social )

I am really interested in your vote behavior and may also update my list as more things come to mind. These will be listed under a horizontal line.

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[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 17 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Upvote: I'd like to see/read more of this. Downvote: I'd like to see/read less of this.

[–] SmoothLiquidation@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I did this with all the stupid moth memes. I want to see less of this so I downvoted them all. (Along with blocking a few communities)

[–] sanderium@lemmy.zip 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

To me upvote/downvote means approval/disapproval, not necesarily agree/disagree. So I've upvoted different posts and comments with different points of view if they are argumented well for and polite.

I do not vote when I skimm the post/comment.

That is basically it.

[–] tuckerm@feddit.online 8 points 6 days ago

I downvote if it looks like they are posting in bad faith. I'll upvote some comments that I disagree with if the poster was trying to contribute to the conversation -- I usually do that to offset the fact that they've been downvoted a bunch already.

Many of the communities I'm in are fairly small, so I upvote almost every comment that I read. I figure it lets someone know that someone else read what they wrote, and I think that's what a lot of us are here for.

[–] kcweller@feddit.nl 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Upvote: the things I want others to read.

Downvote: the things I'd rather see buried.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

inciting violence, no matter against whom (people seem to forget this is a straight up crime, sometimes a felony)

Just gonna repeat what I said about this in another thread about this:

It is illegal only if it is reasonably going to trigger or calls for any immediate lawlessness. Like straight up trying to get a bunch of people together to knock-over a convenience store or actually organizing a murder.

Saying “man, I wish this evil son of a bitch took a round in the face” is not such a time.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 3 points 6 days ago

I was banned from Reddit for inciting violence by saying “I’m surprised Kanye hasn’t murder/suicided Kim or Taylor yet” like how tf is that inciting violence? Kanye himself is going for read that?? Is Kanye the one who reported me?

Upvote - i like it :)

No vote - i don't like it or don't care

My instance doesn't have downvotes

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Up:

  • interesting posts that are on-topic for the muni

  • posts in any community that have spawned interesting comments

  • comments that are cogent or thoughtful replies

  • comments that are funny jokes

  • comments that explore a perspective I've never seen before


down:

  • complaining about downvotes

  • posts that are rule-breaking or off-topic for the community

  • posts or comments with slurs, including misogynistic slurs

  • misinformation, disinformation, and unfunny trolling

  • advocacy for antisocial or unethical behavior (NB: illegal is isn't disqualifying)

  • incivility, over-the-top hostility, and petty bickering

  • rhetorical sins like sealioning, the gish gallop, begging the question, and so on

  • posts linking to videos that don't provide a text summary


downvote and report:

  • hate speech

  • wishing harm or self-harm

  • spam

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Had to look up these rhetorical sins and learned something new today, thanks.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Upvote: well written, adds something to the discussion

Downvote: low effort, hurtful or rage bait

I make a point of not using downvotes as an "I disagree" button. If an opinion is presented well, it may still add something to the discussion even if it doesn't match my personal preferences.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago

I universally downvote things that objectify women

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Upvote:

  • Something I like
  • Something I agree with
  • Something funny
  • A great point for an opposing view

Neutral:

  • Something I don't care about
  • Something I agree with, but is incoherent/ confusing
  • Things I disagree with, but is politely presented and has decent arguments

Downvote:

  • Something I think is trolling/Bigotry
  • Agendaposting
  • Something I agree with, but has terrible argument or presented in an offensive way
  • Something I disagree with, and is incoherent/confusing/presented in an offensive way
  • If the post/comment is so confusing I don't even know which side they are arguing for
  • Wildly Offtopic for the thread/comunity
[–] Strider@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Paladin voting, righteous! 😁

[–] trk@aussie.zone 2 points 6 days ago

Upvote: helpful information, handy tips that are those little nuggets of gold you mine comments sections hoping to find, actually witty comments instead of oft-repeated Reddit style puns, people who actually put some effort in to their post. Basically: stuff I'd want to see if I stumbled on this thread from a Google search in the future.

Downvote: comments complaining about downvotes, any reference to "tankie" or any other perceived and dismissive stereotype, users who complain about being picked on especially by mods (and usually back it up with some tinfoil fanfic about how they've been tracked by Them), Reddit-isms that were overused there and never worth using here, people who don't source their "fact" especially when accompanied by a comment like "it's easy to find this fact". If it's that easy, you do it.

[–] hightrix@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Up: comment adds to conversation or makes me laugh

Down: comment talks about upvotes/downvotes, is hateful, is blatant misinformation, is just a gif, is completely unrelated to the conversation, is a clickbait video with a clickbait thumbnail

No vote: everything else.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

upvote: comment is interesting or funny

downvote: user is being rude (try not to downvote people I disagree with)

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 3 points 6 days ago

Downvotes for spammers, spreading misinformation disinformation and propaganda, know it all comments which starts with" by the way or actually,,etc" in a condescending manner. Also for people targeting one person specifically and trying to to make a offensive sarcastic joke in a way so they don't get banned.

[–] ExtraMedicated@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I don't downvote (At least not intentionally, but if I fall asleep while holding my there can be some accidental taps). Even if something seems somewhat offensive to me.

On the other hand, I don't upvote as much as I think I should.

[–] maxmm77@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

When a meme is funny enough to send to my wife, upvote.

When I see that one dude post his daily game screenshot, downvote.

I am simple man.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago

Up: I like it or agree
Down: I dislike it or disagree.

[–] penguin202124@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Upvote if I think it's high effort, no-vote for most, downvote if wrong or it's misleading.

[–] Pirate@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago

I do the same as you. Although i probably report the most blatant cases of astrosurfing, political propaganda, trolling and so on.

[–] EighteenthNerd@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I ignore communities, posts, and comments that have no real thought behind them. This includes those that are just "educated" repetitions of culture-mantras, no matter what "side" or whatever they are on. Unfortunately, this is most of the internet these days.

Because I appreciate thought, I upvote comments that someone activated some brain cells to write. I also upvote those that make me think, teach me something new, or just make me laugh.

I downvote comments that are mean, aggressive, or otherwise demeaning to the person they are replying to - whether that person was me or someone else.

[–] isyasad@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I don't have strict standards, but generally:

  • usually upvote someone who responds to me with something substantial, even if I disagree
  • downvote things that are antisocial (self-hate/self-harm, antinatalism, misanthropy)
[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 6 days ago

I upvote things that I think are interesting, things that make me laugh, and questions where people are seeking feedback. I almost never downvote unless something is hideously stupid / bad info or bad take.

[–] Ofiuco@piefed.ca 1 points 6 days ago

I only upvote if something is actually worth upvoting, which basically depends on my mood. I rarely upvote.
I downvote low-effort, some reposts, posting things on comms where they don't really fit (or they are forcing it to fit, like posting social media screenshots in any of the many memes comms), opinion pieces posted as news, misinformation/propaganda about my country, clickbait... I downvote a lot.
The rest I just read or check and keep moving, I don't believe in upvoting everything just to make comms feel alive.

[–] bledley@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)
  • Upvote - good point/interesting/funny/agree/posts I like to see
  • Downvote - strongly disagree/inappropriate/poor comment/posts I don't like to see
[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago

Upvote:

  • comment was helpful, insightful, humorous, or provoked good conversation
  • reply to me that I agree with, appreciate, or disagrees with me in a respectful or thought-provoking way

Downvote:

  • unprovoked user demonstrates a hostile, combative attitude
  • comment unrelated to topic/thread

Block:

  • I recognize user based on downvote behavior in multiple threads or user is particularly egregious in particular: bigotry, demagoguery, sea-lioning, or other deliberate offensiveness.
[–] junkthief@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 days ago

My account is on an instance that doesn’t implement downvotes, which I wasn’t sure about at first, but have grown to like. For me, it’s either worth an upvote, worth commenting on, or I just move on. It has changed how I engage with Lemmy a bit.

Sadly if I don't vote, my app doesn't consider it read. So I upvote nearly everything.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 6 days ago

Im lazy so something has to strike me as particularly good or bad to upvote or downvote. On the bad side im usually looking at the users past comments at that point to see if I should block them. I think in kbin I could subscribe to people and a good one might make me do that figuring it means feeds they were active in would get bumped up. I don't see that option in piefed though.

[–] truite@jlai.lu 1 points 6 days ago

I don't downvote, I dislike this feature. In theory I upvote when it's funny or interesting, but I don't often think to do it. I try to upvote posts in little communities to say "hey someone saw your post and enjoyed it, please continue to share things!" even if I don't comment.

[–] macaw_dean_settle@lemmy.world -4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Incorrect spelling of words. *behavior, not behavi our. You are pronouncing the word correctly but spelling it wrong. 'Our' is not the same word as 'or.'

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

You are mistaken. One is British, the other American English and I am from neither country. Wir können uns in Zukunft auch gerne auf deutsch unterhalten, wenn dir das lieber ist.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago

Ich bevorzuge Zangendeutsch.

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 0 points 6 days ago

Upvote stuff I like such as positive news, shitposts, windows bad and Linux good posts.

Downvote rarely, only if the post is factually wrong or misleading and I've spent the time to confirm. "Person shreds other person" is a shit headline and unless he hit a 10 point debate combo with a knockout I'd Downvote.

[–] Luci@lemmy.ca 39 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Vibe. That's it. I just vibe vote.

Word. If I would have smiled at you when you said it in person, it's got my upvote.

If I'm just talking with someone and there's no vibe, it's a neutral.

I try not to talk to people who deserve my downvotes. I do fail sometimes.

[–] kalipixel@reddthat.com 28 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Upvote is mostly if I want better visibility for the post and that is the intended feature even if you do not agree. Sometimes I upvote comments that I like, because comments are not really about that and more about opinion. I do not have downwote option on my instance, nor can I see the down votes which is fine for me.

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[–] cloudless@piefed.social 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Downvote:

  • AI-generated content (images are okay in specific communities)
  • Tankies
[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What about AI generated tankies

[–] cloudless@piefed.social 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Now I need double downvote.

[–] ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Report - Double downvote with this one weird old trick. Mods hate him!

[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 1 points 6 days ago

Not as fun since mods can see who sent reports here.

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