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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.
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Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.
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Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).
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Bring a trans friend!
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Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.
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Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
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When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.
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While this is mostly a meme community, we allow most trans related posts as we grow the trans community on the fediverse.
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WEBRINGS:
Transmasculine Pride Ring 
Hexbear has more lgbt people than the liberal lgbt instances and it's not even trying.
The one neat trick: Visible pronouns that aren't buried in a performative section of the profile page where people can ignore that they exist.
imagine being on Hexbear for any length of time and still being cisgender
Nobody's perfect
it feels wrong frowning at something that brings so much joy and is the morally correct thing to be
Yeah I wish we had a poll service I'm just trying to get things done faster
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big showing from the five cishet guys on here
There's not even a full podcast of us.
There's also like 3 cishet women which is great, love that for them.
but everyone's a little gay innit
:dean-frown: literally scheduled to start HRT soon, but who knows? Probably still cis. /s
Love the flag btw.
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For all practical purposes? Yes. I'm a cisgender man who is in a relationship with the mother of my children and I want to keep it that way.
If I for some hypothetical reason were to find a new partner I feel like I could be with any gender, they're all hot in each their own way so I guess I'm bisexual at heart although I feel like applying that label to myself is done form of stolen valor.
As for gender I feel fine about presenting as a guy although it could be fun experimenting from time to time.
Though only like two people in my real life know because that feels scary to share.
I've said it before, I'm bi and very much not attached to my manhood. But for any poll's sake, it's not fitting to ignore that I live in and experience the world as a cishet.
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I am afab and present as cis and het. I was in love with a girl in high school but haven’t really been attracted to another woman since though I’ve had like romantic-adjacent feelings. I think I might be somewhere in the nb space but I don’t have dysphoria or anything I just don’t particularly feel engaged with the idea of femininity or gender at all
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i tried to be cishet though. good lord, did i try to make that work
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some days I'm like "am I really queer though??" and then I remember I got a gender affirming surgery
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oh I should spoiler this
realistically I might not be cis, given the amount of time I spend in the trans mega. Maybe next poll I'll upgrade myself again.
IDK... I like ladies. I like penises. I like ladies with penises. And maybe a few guys, but body hair is a turn off. 🤷♂️
I mean, it's in the name.
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just the cissiest little cissy hetting all over the place
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In a very long term cishet relationship (probably longer than many hexbears have been alive), so I don't really consider myself , but that would likely change if my relationship status did. Note: this is just something I apply to myself, not others, so I still think you're valid in your identity if this same thing applies to you but you think differently.
what is that flag what is that flag who made that flag tell me now
and yeah im trans as fuck im gay as fuck its the best why should i frown
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After going to art high school, its so weird seing so many cishets. Like, are normal people seriously disgusted if i say im not cis or het?? Whats their problem???
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i am bi and cisgender but to the extent that i am apathetic about my gender and wouldn't mind experimenting with presentation
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although my account isn't on the hexbear instance.
tfw cishets smh
Edit: definitely misread the instructions.
And I kinda don't get 'gender' as to how I'm supposed to interpret how I feel occupying one but I was amab and it's fine I guess. It hasn't really been an issue aside from being called gay in jr high kinda stuff.
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