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[–] kynzo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

i should but usually don't :D I often end up with not having all the things I needed or too many things I don't need

[–] AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world 49 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

There’s a store like half a block from my apartment, so I just treat it like an external pantry.

[–] remon@ani.social 23 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, it's like a 10 minute walk to the next store. Less than 5 mins if you catch the tram. Going shopping is just a 20-30mins round-trip.

I’m an hour rounder to the store so I definitely don’t want to forget anything.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 28 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I make a list, forget the list, and end up winging it.

[–] sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org 6 points 4 days ago

this is the way. write a list, put it on the table while youre getting ready, get to the store, check your pockets, say FUCK in the store. do your best from there.

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I make my list on my phone for exactly this reason.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I forget my phone, which had the list. Or worse:

I have my phone, so I have my list, go to pay: Forgot wallet. 😩

[–] SW42@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I have my wallet when I have my phone. I use contactless payment 95% of the time with my phone.

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Oof, that's rough. For me, for whatever reason, I'm very consistent any time I leave my house: Phone, wallet, keys.

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago

A little of both. As a mom you get used to doing a mental inventory of what you have and what you need to create meals for everyone while trying to reduce waste

[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

Finally an answer I can relate to.

[–] lowspeedchase@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 5 days ago (7 children)

I keep a list that is shared/synced with my s/o via a self-hosted KitchenOwl instance. I've been slowly porting my recipes over to it as well. Overall very satisfied and it works well.

[–] mech@feddit.org 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

We use a blackboard and chalk in the kitchen and take a photo of it before we go shopping.

[–] mybuttnolie@sopuli.xyz 5 points 4 days ago

I'm ashamed to admit this but we have a whatsapp group with just me and SO, we list the items there

[–] SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.works 5 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Yep, this method works really well in a busy schedule.

My spouse and I use iOS so we share lists that we dictate to: "add onions to the grocery list" or "add vitamin c to the pharmacy list" is pretty adhd friendly, and updated live so if one is shopping, that's inevitably when we remember something and the other one of us can update the list without texting.

I like kitchen owl, but have to use iOS for various reasons, and it's pretty low friction, even autoorganizing the list by section of store to make it easier when roaming the aisles.

All our recipes are in print or our heads at this point so we don't need a list-from-recipe feature.

[–] vrek@programming.dev 5 points 5 days ago (8 children)

One thing I wish one of the grocery list apps could do was to store recipes, then you choose which recipes you want that day/week/month whenever you go shopping, it's smart enough to know if 3 recipes need flour only put flour on once, then go through and mark ingredients you already have.

Like I can put in a recipe for penne alla vodka or fettuccine alfrado then if I select penne alla vodka it adds : Penne pasta Vodka sauce Heavy cream Mozzarella cheese Parmesan cheese Sausage

Etc to the list. Then I say actually I already have heavy cream and mark it as not needed.

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[–] LordMayor@piefed.social 15 points 4 days ago

Plan meals for a week. Make list of what’s needed. Shop once a week. Rarely eat out. Never delivery.

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago

Grocery list and I take a pen along and mark everything off when it goes into the cart.

Yeah, I'm old.

I'd love to have a database with all my recipes with ingredients and add them at a click of the button. The problem is I have a fairly well stocked kitchen and I still need to go through the list anyway to make sure I'm not buying anything I already have. So having a computerized system really doesn't save me any time.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 12 points 4 days ago

My family always made a very careful list which was followed when grocery shopping.

Now that I do my own shopping I also make a list, on my phone though. I note down only the very essentials and leave most things open to what I can find whenever I get to shop. For example, I really need eggs and deodorant so I write that, but if I need veg I don't list the type of veg, I just note "veg on special" and make my choice on the spot.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 17 points 5 days ago (1 children)

like 80% of what I need is repetitive. if I make a list, it's because I'm making a recipe.

[–] Beacon@fedia.io 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I don't understand how that would work, everything runs out at different rates. Something like eggs, sure, just get a dozen every week. But things like mayo, laundry detergent, tofu, cheese, etc., these all need to be re-bought at very different random times.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

It works because I'm only one person. Not buying for a full family. I'm definitely not going through giant packs of cheese and laundry detergent at random times.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I'm also one person but if I don't keep a list I'll end up with no milk and 10 boxes of cereal (real example)

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yeah I would just never do that. Like I just remember that I have 2 boxes at home but need milk.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

There's the rub, I straight up can't trust my memory like that, I might remember needing to do something but then forget that I already did it.

With that milk example, I'll remember that I need more milk, get the milk, go home, open the fridge, see milk already there, remember that I already got more milk a couple days ago, put new-new milk next to old-new milk, and legit fucking do it again a couple days from now leaving me with three jugs of milk. Memory is borked I guess.

Fun fact: I have so, so much tooth floss and white rice rn due to this fun phenomenon

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[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Wing it

I did worse than wing it actually... half of the groceries I got over the past few weeks were from Too Good To Go, so near-expired food that the grocery store winged-it for me💀

[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 5 points 4 days ago

Depending on the store TGTT bags can be amazing or... not so much. One store near me will always include fresh fruit, veg, meats, rolls, cans... another will just hand over a bag with like ten kilos of sliced ham in it.

TGTT with a freezer is a game-changer, though.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 2 points 4 days ago

Maybe I should check out their grocery options. I've mostly been using Too Good to Go for like a pizza @ $4.

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I usually do our food shop online, however I plan the meals and write down everything we need for the week. If I'm going to the shop then I'll write the list down in the order I'll move through the shop so that i can just work my way down through the list.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 3 points 4 days ago

Same.

I have a spreadsheet of every meal I've cooked for the last three years, with a meals look-up tab that allows me to filter by cuisine, protein, carb, and then also pulls in the date from the planning sheet so I can see how long it is since I last cooked that meal. Makes weekly meal planning a lot easier, eg: I want a chicken and rice dish that I haven't cooked for at least two months, then a vegetarian pasta dish for next day. No problem!

[–] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 11 points 4 days ago

I have a spouse and child. Winging it simply would not fly.

Anything less than strict adherence to a list would be another fight... and there are already too many of those.

[–] dusty_raven@discuss.online 9 points 4 days ago

I'm shocked nobody has mentioned Aisleron (https://aisleron.com/), I use it for my semi-monthly shopping. It lets you organize items, and then you swipe it if you're out of it/need to buy more. You can have different stores set up, and each item will go to the corresponding location in that store.

It basically functions like a database for grocery items with an intuitive interface.

Oh, did I mention it's FOSS?

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[–] titter@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I make a menu that includes two breakfasts (6 and 9 am) a lunch (11) and six dinners. I account for what i have and list the rest of the needs. Then i go shopping and add two treats(for snacking or dessert) and two beverages (oj, pop, prebrewed coffee, rtc) and a freezer pizza.

If i have to go back that week for anything, i fucked up.

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

two breakfasts

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I start with the "buy again" list on the grocery website.

[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I stopped winging it after all too often ending up with both a fridge full of rotting produce and yet also nothing to eat. Turns out grocery shopping needs some strategy that I can’t do without help.

AnyList has been an awesome tool for me. It’s got all my recipes, a meal plan building to sketch out the next week, and builds a shopping list so I can only buy the things I will for sure cook with.

It’s also made me realize I’m not about to buy fresh herbs or green onions when they’re only going to be used as a bit of garnish for one dish.

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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 days ago

I don't make lists for anything. My life is pretty much winging it... Which does explain a lot when I type it out like that :P

[–] SW42@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

It’s a bit of both. We do have a list with the staple items and foods we buy and we check it to see if our pantry needs refilling but other than than we just take what we think would be good and/or useful

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 4 points 4 days ago

I've been eating the same things every day for over a decade. I can manage without list.

[–] Maiq@piefed.social 5 points 5 days ago

I make a list and every so often I remember to bring it with me.

[–] remon@ani.social 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

No list and I do constantly forget stuff. But I also go shopping every other day, so it's not like anything essential will be forgotten for too long.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Both!

Always go a list nowadays as I have ADHD and if I go for three things I will forget one of them. The list is what I must get, but once there, I get what is on the list and then maybe get a few more things that I forgot to put on the list.

So I never really make a full and complete list, just a list of necessities and wing the rest.

[–] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 4 points 4 days ago

I take a list, and I grab everything on the list, but I also follow my whims

[–] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Mostly wing it based on my memory. But in some occasions, there's a list of important stuffs. It's mostly just 2,3 items like "we're out of potatoes/onions/salt", then wing the rest.

I think except for important and constant stuffs like spices, it's better to just buy what's available cheap and make your food from that. But that could be just me

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